My Problem: I live with my In-laws.
I got a puppy about a 2 week now since i'm the owner i clean and feed the dog for the first week, which during the end of the first week my Father and mother In-law say" Leave the dog Poop we'll clean it ( the dog Live out side), I work and since they keep begging me to Clean the poop and feed the puppy lunch time. I let them. A few days past No complain, Today they started to complain about the dog. My Mother-inlaw ever like me, so she use this as an excuse, so my husband can ruff me up....
What you think i should do?
2006-07-07
07:47:56
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I think you need to move out with your husband. Your mother-in-law sounds like mine. I liar and controller.
2006-07-07 07:50:45
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answered by cawecm 2
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I think you just told us a portion of he story, the part that makes you look like the victim and everyone is against you. Something is missing. There' s alot missing. But no matter. The immediate solution is this: The home is not yours, it's your in-laws and they set the rules...whether they are likeable people or not. Dogs leave messes and the in-laws will be stuck with the bill for repairing stains and other animal related problems. Move out. Take husband with you or leave him behind, but you and the puppy need to find other lodging.
2006-07-07 15:02:20
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answered by nothing 6
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First of all, if your husband ruffs you up, shame on you because I would be the a** kicker (Tina Turner and Ike Turner in the limo). Anyways, you should not have purchased/received/accepted a dog while you are living in someone elses house. You get those things when you have your own space and can control your own house. You knew you worked, so the puppy would be someone elses responsibility while you were at work. My mother-in-law does not like me either, but she does respect me. Get rid of the dog, get one when you leave their home.
2006-07-07 14:56:09
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answered by Kari F 2
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It really doesnt matter if you are right, its not your house. So by default, your wrong. I sure hope hubby stands up for you in that house! If at all possible, move out! Your life will be much happier. Its her house, and it is impossible for two women to run the same house! I know that living with in-laws is sometimes necessary, but if you can, move! I strongly urge it!
2006-07-07 14:57:59
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answered by cutiepie 2
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This sounds like a PSYCHO family from hell! Ruffles his moms feathers just so he can rough u up? NO MAN should be touchine a woman and especially not over puppy poop! I suggest you and your hubby find a place to love FAR FAR away from the in laws! Yours and his!
2006-07-07 14:58:00
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answered by cstinkerbell6969 6
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Speaking as a woman who was once "ruffed up" get the heck out of Dodge and take Rover with you! Kiss Monster-in-law and Husband with no kahunas GOOD BYE!
2006-07-07 14:57:02
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answered by tinthelbc 2
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If you live in someone else's house you shouldn't have a dog to begin with. Much less when two of you work and its left alone with the in-laws, That's pretty thoughtless on your part.
2006-07-07 14:56:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Honey the pup is urs u take care of him and leave ur in laws to themselves.Seems they're out 2 ruin u so leave them 2 themselves eventually things will get better just keep ur hubby happy and things will work out.
2006-07-07 15:10:41
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answered by sweetheart 2
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you should have never let them have anything to do with the dog, that was there way of being able to complain about you, they did it on purpose. so my suggestion is that you tell your husband that you told them repeatedy that you did not want them to take care of the dog but that they would not stop bothering you so you gave in and then walla one week later this happens. then tell hime that you are going to tell them that you dont want them to help you with the dog anymore that you will do all of it your self, and then dont ever let them help again. you fed them what they needed to start a fire in the house by letting them help, i would not do that or anything close to that again.
2006-07-07 14:55:20
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answered by Blonds Rock 4
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Rough you up? Well maybe there is a bigger problem poop problem then what the dog is dropping. Maybe you guys need your own place. also if there are abuse issues then you need your own place. Don't put yourself in a hostile environment. Not good. OK be safe.
2006-07-07 14:52:32
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answered by D baby 3
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