2006-07-07 07:45:39 · 8 answers · asked by gregstoy04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After reading some answers I should maybe clarify. It is not like I have had no success with women I am just tired of all the games
2006-07-07 10:48:28 · update #1
It doesnt really bother me. I mean its possible you arent meeting someone u r compatible with or they r just not giving u the chance to prove who u r to them. I believe to each his own and each person has the right to do and chose what they do without anyone looking down on them! Never judge someone else unless YOU are perfect yourself! And noone is perfect! Do what makes you happy in life!
2006-07-07 07:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In mainstream society, which I am thanfully not part of, yes it is looked upon poorly. Men tend to understand more so then women who tend to feel as if they are losing potential mates to the mail orders. Men usually take the approach I do, your making yourself happy. As long as it doesn't effect me, why not? Happiness is something that most people search there lifes for, if you can obtaining it while in the mean time helping out someone less fortunate from a third world country (or country less fortunate, especially when it comes to women), why not?
Women see it as a threat, I've heard some women say they think it is a cop out for men who don't want the challenege of dealing with a strong independant woman, they feel men who do this are taking the easy way out, and will usually end up with a less then mutual relationship.
I believe you can have just as loving and warm a relationship with a mail order bride as any other relationship, both parties get involved knowing full well what may happen, and both are adults (if we are talking young girls here, I am completely against it), so let those two adults choose their path to happiness just as we all choose ours.
More power to you, very entertaining and interesting question non the less.
Hope that worked for ya,
Dora
2006-07-07 14:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by the honest jerk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know a couple of guys who got one. It cost them a fortune, and the women just wanted to get over here, have a child, and then took up with other men. The divorces cost the guys a fortune, plus about $4000 a month in child support. These women are looking for older men with money. I would steer clear of them.
2006-07-09 14:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sally G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want the easy way to a relationship or sex slave. Why not try a real relationship or you may never get real Love and someone to spend the rest of your life with.
2006-07-07 14:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More like "looked down upon"... it's illegal and I don't think its worth it.
Move to Russia if you want it that bad.
2006-07-07 14:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by kisme86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy.
2006-07-07 14:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by cawecm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's generally 'faux pas'
2006-07-07 14:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by ontario ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, get it anyway you can dude.
2006-07-07 14:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋