can you take birthcontrol to kill a baby?

Question

i wanna take birthcontrol to get rid of this baby im too young and i dont need to be having a baby and yea if i dont want one i should just not have unprotected sex at all and my friend is on her way to get me tested and to see if i am and to give me birth control. im only 17 i cant talk to my mom because if she found out she would kill me. I cant have it, theres no way. I might sound crazy and yea its a life that im killing and not wanting but at the same time idk what to do. Yea i should maybe give up for adoption and such or not have an abortion trust me im thinken about all of this and i still cant go thru with it. i just need sum advice on what to do.

Answer 1

it can seriously harm but possibly not kill the baby. Don't want it? get an abortion or put it up for adoption. Next time practice safe sex.

Answer 2

If you don't want it,you have to have an abortion. Birth control pills, even if you take a bunch at once, may only harm the baby, causing you to not only still have a baby, but a baby with some serious problems. Abortion is the only safe way to get rid of a baby, so don't think about the coat hangers, or getting punched in the stomach either... all those options are more likely to hurt you than your child. If you are not too far along, an abortion would cost less money than it will later, find a close older friend, tell them the problem. If you really want the abortion have them help you get the money.. (baby's dad should be involved too) Look through your other options first, but this is your choice, act fast because that baby's going to become more of an actual baby every day.

Answer 3

I think that you should educate yourself on the facts and use your head, if you don't want to go through with the pregnancy then have and abortion, but don't be senseless and take birthcontrol that can cause birth defects, snd it is not that childs fault that you were irresposible and now you don't want to deal with the responsiblity of taking care of the outcome. I think that you should keep your legs closed and not make any mor innocent lives suffer from your carelessness. Take some sex ed classes before you decide to have sex, beause then you may have known about protection and birth control. That just goes to show that kids are not mature enough to be having sex, because abortion is nor birthcontrol, but don't make that baby suffer any more, consult an obgyn about termination options.

Answer 4

Birth control is only going to screw up the baby's tiny little organs so if you do have it will have serious problems and not be able to function without being hooked up to medical machines all the time and it won't be able to learn like a normal person.
17 isn't really really young to be pregnant, my friend was 14 and she got pregnant I told her mom because she was going to try something like this to get rid of the baby. Her mom was really angry like any mom would be but she helped her through it, my friend had the baby and the baby was adopted and my friend still talks with the baby's parents and they are very happy.

Bottom line: Don't try to take birth control to kill your baby, you have to tell your mom, whatever you do you HAVE TO TELL YOUR MOM.
And I think adoption is not only the humane think to do but there are millions of couples all over the country who would love to have a baby but because of fertility problems can't.
And it's not going to be easy, whatever you do, but you'll get through it and life goes on and gets better. Next time you have sex make sure you are protected in one way or the other.

I'm sorry to sound lecturing but I'm just trying to offer some guidance.

Answer 5

You sound like a rather selfish person. How can someone make a life only to want to take it away? I don't understand that. No, taking birth control will not kill your baby, it will give the baby birth defects. There are millions of women out there that can't have babies, and you are wanting to just kill yours? If you were my child I would be ashamed of you right now. My advice is to let this baby take it's first breath in the real world and then give him/her to someone who really will care about it. I don't know who you are and I don't even like you.

Answer 6

Birth control will not abort your son/daughter. I do not believe in abortion. You need to educate yourself on abortion. Go to yahoo images and type in aborted baby. If you can look at that and still kill your child something is wrong with you. I had my daughter when I was 14 yrs old. I am now 27. We are just fine. I got married this year and have a beautiful 10 month old son. Talk to your parents. Medicaid will cover 100% of your medical bills, and WIC will supply you with food and formula til your baby is 1 yr old. Then give you other foods til 5 yrs old. There is a lot of help out there. If you need to talk please send me an email. Please don't kill your baby.

Answer 7

I'm 13 and i have more sense than u. Hello? its called a condom! Its people like u that ruin life for other people (literally!). First just go 2 planned parent hood they can give u some help. But honestly u just screwed up the rest of ur life. U probably wont even go 2 collage and end up on welfare. U just cant kill someone 2 cover up UR STUPID mistake.

Answer 8

no birth control pills will not kill the baby if you are not that far along thee are other options but I will tell you from experiance I was 15 when I got pregenant and I have twin boys that are the world to me with out them I do not know where I would be I was very scared to tell my mom I thought she would hurt me literally but she was up set but now she loves more than words can describe but me and the father supported them on our own and now we are doing better than most people that are a lot older than us wqe are 20 and 23 and we are still very happy with each other and our boys are 4 .so the sooner you tell your mom the faster you can make a decision on what would be better for you.

Answer 9

You need to go to a crisis pregnancy center or to your local planned parenthood and they will help you. They will talk to you about your options and help you to deal with this pregnancy. They will help you make decisions and help you to deal with your parents. Please don't kill your baby. It is a human life. It is a beating heart. If you intentionally stop a beating heart, it is murder, no matter how you do it. There are millions of people who cannot have children who could give this baby a good, loving home. I think that mothers who give their babies up for adoption are the most unselfish people. It is the greatest unselfish love. It is a great thing to do if you cannot care for this baby. Yes, it will be hard and yes, you will loose a few months of your teenage years, but it is worth it. Please find someone to talk to.

Answer 10

you need to go to your mom if you thought you were old enuf for sex your old enuf to face up and tell her what you did. AND DO NOT KILL the baby if you dont want it put it up for adoption. right now get off the computer and go tell your mom yeah shell yell and shell scream but PLZ DONT KILL THE BABY. your mom will get over it. there are hundreds of familys out there who whould love that baby. give it a chance to live. and ask your mom to get you birthcontrol after you have it.