This is for the guys.How do guy's end up with so much pride? Y do you refuse to shrare their feelings?

Answer 1

big balls

Answer 2

Any time a guy shares his feelings with a woman he's dating he's basically burying a time bomb that can blow up in his face in any future argument. Also women generally share these details with other women, not realizing that the reason that the man didn't want to talk about it in the first place is because he didn't want a lot of people to find out.

Finally, even though many women SAY they want men to share their feelings, when men do, the woman often sees the man as weak, and becomes less attracted to him. At first she seems happy and grateful to have insight into his inner thoughts, but it doesn't take long for her to start looking at him differently, and not in a good way.

Look at is this way, we men know that naturally, a woman has sometimes thick hair on her legs and underarms. We know it's there and it is a fact of life, but the women around us, even those who we are living with, will privately shave the hair or otherwise remove it so we don't see it. If we do ever see it, it's a little shocking, and the image stays in our minds. The same hair is fine on a man's body.

Emotional insecurity works in the reverse way, it's more acceptable for a woman to display it, when a man display's it, even though it's nice to see the way he really is, women can't help but realize that he's got the emotional equivalent of some VERY BUSHY PITS. The image stays in her mind. Remember Will Farrel in that movie old school, when he was talking with the couples counsellor and he described in exact detail what he was thinking when he saw another woman in public? You don't want that!

A man should work out his emotional issues through self-reflection, conversation with close male friends, or talking to a therapist or someone else who can help them work things out in a neutral, disinterested way.

Answer 3

Well dear, as you probably know, guys a brought up being praised for almost everything they do. And when we do something wrong, we're usually patted on the back. It's almost like we can do nothing wrong. Unfortunately, girls aren't quite treated the same way. I wish they were, the whole world would be a better place.
Women have low self-esteem & that's a shame. Women are sweet, beautoful, and sensitive people that are taken advantage of by stupid males that don't realize what affect they are having on such wonderful creatures. I wish all the guys would realize what they have done to the women of the world & what effect they have on them. Personally, I wish this world was run by women. Then maybe it wouldn't be such a cut throat society, with so much hatred.
Be happy for who you are dear. You're a much better person than most people will admit.

Answer 4

I personally have to feel very comfortable with the person i share my feelings with. And i believe alot of it has to do with the way society has made us. Always saying men aren't supposed to cry and how we have to be the strong ones. We feel that if we show just alittle weakness that you feel that you wouldn't be able to count on us. Well thats how i feel about it anyway. I am currently with a girl i've been with for 4 years and just recently (within the past 4 or 5 months) felt that she wouldn't think less of me if i showed weakness. But everyone is different. Communication is key so try talking to you significant other or whoever it may be that you are having this problem with and see if you can find out why.

Answer 5

Guys are philosophically different. As a guy I know that my priorities are as follows:

Being confident in what I do

Keeping my mind on the tasks at hand

Not wasting mental energy on doubts or disappointment

learn as much as I can to help myself

and last but not least how I feel at the moment

Women (generally):

What do you think of me or what I do?

Why do people think that way?

How do I get things done?

Confidence

And finally can I get more confidence?

Answer 6

You're stereotyping. Not all guys are like that, only most.

If you want to blame it on testosterone or other male conditions, fine, but your bullshitting yourself. It's because of society. Society tells males that they have to be feisty and muscular, as well as have a good head of hair and be able to play football, much like women are supposed to be skinny, sexy, and have lush, beautiful hair.

Judment: Society is guilty

AAAAAANNNDD... every single guy who doesn't have the guts to stand up and make his own decisions. Maybe thats it, humans weren't given enough willpower, male or female.

Karl

Answer 7

A few reasons...

#1. Girls make us that way, if you share your feelings and have no pride you are viewed as a wuss and females get bored of you then go have sex with heroin addicted bikers instead...

#2 learned behavoir, our parents and society have tought us that guys need to be "big strong providers" and arent allowed to have feelings much less discuss them.

Answer 8

Sure, you can ask why we don't share our feelings but why do you never ask yourself why it is so important to you that we share our feelings.

If most women knew what we truly felt (not that we could always verbalized it anyway) your precious self esteem would be devestated. We are not always thinking about you; we don't always have warm, fuzzy feelings about you; we, at times don't even give a damn about you!

There is a reason why we don't share our every feeling with you; its called logic. Sharing our feelings with you may solve your problem of want us to be like you but it creates a whole shelf of other problems that we shoose to avoid.

Answer 9

because some are warriors first and lovers second. We have to stand up for what we believe or die curled up. Survival is more important then female emotions.

where I come from anyway

Answer 10

Societal points of view on what a man should be like.

Personally, I don't give a rat's @$$ because I'm a man for my wife.

Answer 11

this shows weakness, when other guys see this weakness, they will not let it go, they will use this weakness to break each other down, piece by piece! so they never show this side of themselves even to those they love!