Well I had my husband's sister write me an email back in April about how she noticed that her brother was being an *** to me. She explained in her email that I did not diserve to be treated like I was and that I surely needed to think about having a good day everyday and not just a few once in a while. Well at the time I was so upset with my husband because he wated to drink and spend money that we did not have. My husband found the email and asked me about it. I told him that at the time I was extremely angry with him and I said a lot of things out of anger. The next day I called his sister to let her know that he found the email and that if she would to just tell him that he just needed to talk to me ( She's 8 months pregnant the last thing I thought she needed was drama) She told me she would just tell him what I asked of her instead she told him that I was lying to him and she also to this to his parents. Now my husband says out marriage is over and he's staying with another woman.
2006-07-07 06:47:30 · 10 answers · asked by angelface_22_fl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds lika alot of drama!!! Sounds like the sister-in-law is trying to be on both sides of the fence and at the same time appears to be causing trouble btw. you and your husband. I hate to say it, but this sounds like he is trying to make an excuse to be with a woman that was already on the side. If it were me I would let him go......you know the old saying You don't what you have til it's gone. Problem is, if he realizes he gave up a good thing and wants you back...how are you going to feel or have trust for him? How important is someone being faithful to you while you're married? Don't just settle.....set standards that mates have to qualify for.....sad but true, seems people take more time choosing a vehicle than a lifetime mate. Take a break from all this drama and get your thoughts in order and realize you deserve good things. Good Luck!
2006-07-07 06:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he did you a big favor by leaving you. Lets just say for fun that things were good before the email, which they weren't, but if they were if he would leave you and move in with another woman just because of an email he read then your marriage didn't have much of a foundation to begin with. You should be glad to get out of a dis functional family like the one they are obviously in. It may be a good idea to talk to someone and help you deal with your lack of self respect that way you want repeat this same mistake and get involved with someone else who will just end up treating you the exact same way. Men like him seek out women like you that they can control. When they meet a woman with self respect that they know can't get away with "having a few good days here and there" they will run for the hills. The best thing you could do for yourself is get out of this marriage and get yourself some help so history doesn't repeat itself. As hard as it may seem now you'll be glad you did it in the long run.
2006-07-07 13:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! I am a guy, and trust me, he was boning the other woman. If you are not with a man who will trust, respect, and love you, then **** him...andnot literally.
He did the hard break up for you. Just don't play all giddy and sad and try to get him back, from now on you will be nothing but a booty call to him. He mad the chopice to sleep around, and all you need to do is say to hell with him and move on. Think of it like this, what would yo utell a female friend in the same situation?
2006-07-07 13:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by brianjosephmatthews 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mya has a great song called " Moving On". You should do the same. Sounds like he just needed a reason to be with other woman full time.
2006-07-07 14:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask???? He's betraying you, honey, dump him....unless of course you like pain, abuse, a cheater, live with someone who feels marriage is a scam, ....you are the jerk in reserve. If you like it stay -- most of us in who
find ourselves in that situation leave, and find someone worth our attention, time and love...
2006-07-07 13:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave him. If you have family, move in with them until you get things figured out.
2006-07-07 14:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't degrade yourself by staying with someone who doesn't want to be with you. Move on, there's someone else out there for you.
2006-07-07 13:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by dangerousdreamz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool! he sounds like a jerk, you should be glad he left. You can find someone who is more respectful.
2006-07-07 13:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say divorce is sorry axx.
2006-07-07 13:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OVER
2006-07-07 13:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋