people are mean.?

Question

people are mean.? I was walking down the road for a quick break and some guy drove by and yelled" eeeewwwwwee yourrr faaaaaat!! What an A$$ W%O*E. I am 214 5'6 and big breasted and not really that fat come on. I have been told that i am thick. What iswrong with men and their stereo types these days. I am a 26 fem. with children. I consider myself to be very atractive. So do many other people. Im just at a loss for words and hate being treated differently than a thin younger girl. i have noticed this often when I go somewhere. the way I am treated by a male is much different than the way a thinner tanner, younger girl is treated.

No to the comment about me thinking that fat men are ugly. I actually prefer a bigger man, mine is big now and I would have it no other way. I am happy with myself just agrivated at all those rude people out there.

Answer 1

And your question is?

Answer 2

I'm sorry that you're feelings got hurt, it's hard not to even when you know, intellectually that they are just some ignorant dick head. Bigger girls can certainly be attractive (even more so than some thin girls) because they often know how to dress well for their body types and keep themselves cleancut, feminine and stylish. Bigger girls often spend more time on other parts of their bodies such as their hair and makeup, clothes, shoes and handbags, which all add to the total appearance. I've seen many thin girls with the style sense of a hyena.

But you're right. People are mean. Unfortunatley society has been inundated with images of the "perfect" body types to be strived for which is the Paris Hilton, Nicole Richie, Lindsay Lohan, glamorous starved waif look. In past centuries it was the women who were larger who were considered attractive, because if you had enough food to eat to not look emaciated, it was a sign of health and wealth.

It's easy to say ignore it, but a lot harder to do. Keep working on other areas of your life to maintain a healthy self-esteem. Work on continuing your education and maintaining good relationships with family and friends. These are the important things in life.

And, if it makes you feel better, make sure you get some exercise and work on eating a balanced diet, which included cookies and carrot sticks.

Answer 3

214? I agree that that guy is a rude jerk and alot of people are, but honestly, are you happy with your weight? If you are than fine, dont worry about what others think. If you feel like you could lose a few than try that. I know its hard but 214 sounds just a little heavy to me. Not that bad though, Look at Oprah, I don't know how much she weighs but she is a bigger attractive lady.

Answer 4

yep, there's lots of MEAN people out there but there are some really nice people too. Try and ignore the mean ones. If you pay attention to them, they can make your life miserable. They do not deserve any thought except pray that God would help them to change and then forget about them. It's better to choose more positive things to think about - like what you are going to be doing with your family that they might like to do or anything that will keep your mind off those stupid mean people.

Answer 5

Yeah and you probably think the same thing about fat guys. People like to look at attractive people and that's not going to change. The guy that was yelling things at you was just plain rude!

Answer 6

Yes ppl are meen but its not important what ppl think or say about you its how you feal and knowing that you arent fat, I'm 4 months pregnant and big pregnant and ppl call me fat all of the time when its obviouse that I'm not, don't worry about it just hold your head high and show them disrespectful little boys what a real women is made of.

Answer 7

you should be more self-confident .. as you said that you like what you are now so who cares about what others say.

Answer 8

What would Jesus do?

Answer 9

i agree they are mean..