im YOUNG n pregant how should i tell my mom???

Question

ok Im 14 n ive had sex 3 times with mah bf n now im 3 wk pregant i ont kno how to tell my mama PLEZ HELP :( :( should i hide it or wut but mah bf mama kno's so how would it work??!!??!!!!

Answer 1

well, honey, you know that you made a mistake, and I am sorry that you are pregnant, but you are 14 and shouldn't of been doing it, especailly unprotected.Don't hide it from you mom. It won't be long and you will be getting morniong sickness, and could start showing at like 3 months or so. You will also need to go to the doctors.Your mom probably didn't want this to be the way she had a grandchild , but she will still probably want to be involved. Don't drop out of school or do anyhting stupid. And when you tell your mom she will more than likely be mad. But tell her even tho you know you did wrong , that you are caring her grandchild and you need all the support you can get. I might would go talk to a mimister or something, and you may not need for the dady to be there, or maybe it would help. I don't know your mom so , I don't know how she will react. Just , don't give it up, take care of your self, and you are going to have to watch how you move, and sleep, and all that stuff. I hope that all works out and take care of yourself and the baby. Be sure that the daddy sticks by your side. this is his baby too. God Bless you and you are in my prayers.

Answer 2

I think that you are going to have to tell her. If you are grown enough to have sex, then you should be grown enough to deal with the consequences. If you don't know what that meands, then look it up. It sounds to me that you have a hard time talking to your mom. If his mom already knows and she doesn't. Apparently she hasn't really talked to you about protection or anything like that if you were to get to a point where you think that you are ready to have sex. I think that you may want to have someone there w/ you like your grandmother or an aunt, someone that you may feel comfortable to be there w/ you when you tell her. You may even want his mother there so that both of them can discuss what your options are going to be. I seriously believe that you should have an abortion. You will not be able to hide it. Every female's body reacts to pregnacy differently. Some start showing w/in a month or two because of weight gain. some don't really start showing until their 5-6 month. Either way, you won't be able to hide it.

You need to talk to her as soon as possible before it's too late. The sooner the better. If you do decide to terminate this pregnacy then she will have to go w/ you since you aren't legally able to do it.

Answer 3

Thats the reason 14 yr olds should not be having sex! Have the baby and put it up for adoption in a family that will take care of the child. What is the world coming to! And if u think that this baby will make ur b/f stay with u always, plz think again. Let's hope he stays.

Answer 4

Do not hide it -- it will only make things worst.

Think about what you plan to do (abort, keep, or adopt). Have information on all three options when you decide to tell your Mom.

Realize that if you want to keep the baby (if you're Mother doesn't help it will be very hard). And hopefully you have the desire to finish school regardless if you're pregnant or not.

There are many people who will do open adoption where you'll be "in the know" of how your baby is doing.

Good luck!

Answer 5

You need to seriously consider termination. I don't believe in killing unborn children but I do believe in doing what you have to due when it's for the better.

No disrespect.....but by just reading your question I knew you were young because of all the typo's and improper use of words. Do you you really think you can take care of child and you are still dependent on your own mother yourself?

You can go to Plan Parenthood and they will help you out without contacting your parents. Everything is free.

Good Luck

Answer 6

Well I'm pregnant right now and young too. I let my parents know when I was 2 months and my brothers know when I was 4 months but it was because you couldn't tell. I'm due on the end of this month and I really didnt get that big. But I think you should let your mom know because regarless of how disappointed she'll be, she will be there for you. Just give her some time. You should also tell her because you have to go to the doctor for your check ups and its going to be hard for you to get a doctor and go to your regular check ups behind your mom's back. She will find out, and it's best if she hears it from you rather them other people telling her.

Answer 7

My advice would be tell your mom Now the sooner the better. You shouldn't hide it because you need to see a doctor while you are pregnant. You mother can Help you. Don't be afraid. The best relationship a person could have with there mother is an open one.
Good Luck

Answer 8

If you cant even spell why the hell are you having a kid?? If you were my 14 year old daughter Id whip youe a** for even toying with sex. You are to young and guess what sweety do you think your young boyfriend is gonna hang around no way. So your 14 pregnant to young to work and mommy will have to know because you are going to finacially need her help and all of us tax payers help. You are a foolish child I feel bad for you

Answer 9

You should just tell her. Take the responsibility for your actions. It's so sad that you went and got pregnant because apparently you need some more education, your spelling is horrible. I'm not saying that to be mean but to point out that you're not ready for a child. It happened though so you'll just have to live with it, Good luck.

Answer 10

OMG, tell your mother immediately and contact an attorney to have that child put up for adoption. You're 14 and your communication skills are worse than my 4-year old's. Get this child to a family who has some hope of raising it well and do it fast.