My fiance left me in December when i became pregnant. We tried to work things out in February but i lied to him about something. Nothing to do with another man. Although I have found out a few "fibs" he has told me also. Now since our baby is here we are together and happier than ever before! He still doubts in some things i tell him. He will question me and is worried that i will lie to him again. What can i do ???
2006-07-07 06:14:54 · 3 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I want to make this work. Help me!
2006-07-07 06:16:00 · update #1
Just be as honest as you can with him. That's the best thing you can do know. Good luck.
2006-07-07 06:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by babybro35 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, his doubts are natural consequences of the lies that you told him before. You can't blame him for that and you can't expect him to just trust you as much as he did before, not immediately at least. If he lied to you, I'm sure you wouldn't trust him as you did before too. However, trust can be regained through time and honesty. If you remain truthful to him as time passes, he will eventually realize that you have learned from your mistake and give you back his trust as before.
2006-07-07 13:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by mack-mack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him even if it hurts and one more thing swallow ur
pride because ur not only hurting ur self but him and ur child.
plus if u don't want to loose him again it would be the best thing for u to do , BE VERY HONEST TO HIM AND UR SELF.
2006-07-07 13:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by mact600 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋