I am married , great guy , outrageous sex
Why do I find myself looking for something else ?
Some days its like Im on a hunt for another guy or girl just for a good time?
We swing occaisionally shouldnt that be enough?
Can I stop feeling this way?
2006-07-07 06:08:52 · 27 answers · asked by suiki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you love your husband but you lust physical interaction with others.. it's somewhat normal for people to feel like that. but you also have to realize what you really have and what you would lose if you were to fool around and he left you.
2006-07-07 06:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by C-Baby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not alone I have been in the same relationship for 6 years and I find myself thinking of others sex is great when we have it but I am always thinking how much fun it would be to have a girlfriend on the side that he did not know about we have done the swing thing but all the couples are all older or not what we are in to good luck
2006-07-07 06:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he's a great guy, outrageous sex, and you swing occasionally. Maybe your looking for someone to have all to yourself & you want them to feel the same way.
Sounds like you think you're missing something. Rethink what you have, if your happy, and what consequences will come about from your actions. Is it really worth it.
2006-07-07 06:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by rhurt54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know from personal experience but my guess would be that you are searching for complete love. If you're willing to swing and your husband is reaching out for other women then you can't feel complete and whole. I'd say that is why you are hunting. Good luck.
2006-07-07 06:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage takes effort and work. It doesn't just come and stay all happy and lovely all the time no matter how great the guy or the sex is. Sometimes you have to fight your feelings and stick with it. When you start thinking those "wandering" thoughts. Think to yourself, "no, that is wrong, I need to be loyal to my husband"
2006-07-07 06:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by spockofvullcan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your man. Maybe he can help! If your married he should be your best friend and he yours and you guys should be able to work things out and tell each other everything. Just let him know.
2006-07-07 06:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a case of perversion. Why don't you try to seek spirituality to fill yourself with?
2006-07-07 06:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would think swinging would be enough too!!! Hmm, maybe you need to "swing" by yourself
2006-07-07 06:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like u need to be attending more socials.....or maybe exploring other women? Maybe that's what u feel you're missing.....it's worth a try.........Good luck!
2006-07-07 06:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's OK - as long as you don't ACT and just look. Hey , who Say's you can't look at the menu AFTER you've ordered you food?
2006-07-07 06:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by LongShot™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋