I wanna ask this girl i like to go out on a date but i dont know how to ask her directly.she doesnt know im bisexual & interested in her.
2006-07-07 05:51:59 · 12 answers · asked by karatekiddo 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
GOD doesnt like what you're doing you better stop it now and find the church of Christ nearest you.
2006-07-07 05:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Da #1 Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say start talking about a movie out that you're just dieing to see, then ask her if she wants to come with you. If yes then go and have fun. If it feels like two friends going out then you made a new friend, if it feels like a date try to get close (just in her space a little) and see what happens. Either way you had a good day and sloved the ask her go without knowing issue. Wear some rainbow something on the "date" so if she is bi then she can guess the same about you. She could be wondering the same thing.
2006-07-07 08:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as soon as my soon-to-be partner told me the best pick up line ever ("I'm bisexual"), we hit it off even more and started dating that night. Start talking and work towards the "I'm bisexual" part of the conversation. There is no script. Follow her reactions - if she runs away screaming in terror that you are going to hell - you probably should stop. But if she smiles and is really interested in what you are saying - keep going!
2006-07-07 06:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by michellesm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never found pick up lines to be effective, tho the one "If I followed you home would you keep me" i always thought was cute but...lol I would just go with the flow, chat things up etc. And become friends. I think friends make the best lovers/ mates. But whatevr you do DON'T listen to milla, she obviously hallucinating that you asked a question about church. And I wouldn't think that would be an effective pick up line either lol.
2006-07-07 07:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by scorp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask her out as two girlfriends for a day out to go shopping or to a spa. Then listen to her body language and be casual and yourself. Look amazing yourself and give her subtle hints. Spoil her and yourself and find out what she likes. Take time and you may get a signal or at least you'll know when to tell her your deeper feelings for her. Most importantly, be patience and don't come on too strong- you need to know if she is even attracted to women and then of course if she likes you too. Good Luck!
2006-07-07 06:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here's my story, which just proves you don't need a good line if you are meant to be together :P I saw a woman at the bar, I recognized her because her son was going to the preschool that I used to teach at. I assumed that she was just there (gay bar) with a friend and so I jokingly went up and said, "So are you batting for our team now?" I felt like an *** when she said "maybe" and we've been together for almost a year now. Just be yourself. She knew at that moment that I'm a total dork and she's completely in love with me.
2006-07-07 06:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Just Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Would you like to go out for food, kisses and gay love?"
Heheh... just kidding... ;o)
My pick-up line over a year ago (on my crush) was: "You look familiar, have we met before?" Coz I wanted to meet her for the first time (and know her name, etc) and it worked... Then after 2 months or so, I mustered the courage to ask her out for coffee... (as for her answer, that's another story...heh) anyhoo....
As the others have said, the best way is to ask her straight (no pun intended). Ask her directly if she wants to go out for coffee or maybe a movie... but "after" you've established that friendship... wait for the right time and opportunity and just dig in. The key is to be honest and look for signs if she's interested in you too... like eye contact... that says a lot. ;o) Good luck!
2006-07-07 19:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her first as a friend. Be sure to let her know that you are bisexual when you feel that she has earned your confidence if this turns into a relationship so that she can make the choice if she wants to pursue a relationship with you. Be honest.
2006-07-07 06:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by laneljade1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and ask her if she would like to go get coffee sometime. This breaks the ice. It isn't ahuge commitment either. If she says yes, then while having coffee you can talk to here and get a better feel for her feelings.
2006-07-07 06:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think MillaP understood the question - or at least I don't rate her chat up techniques :)
how about "Wanna go for a soda/coffee/drink?"
And take it from there.
BTW, I take it you know if she's les/bi?
2006-07-07 06:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋