over the last pass five months my boyfriend of 2 years now is not right. he lies cheat talk on phone with other females. even try to hurt me physically. I love him so much. i worry about him when ever he goes out. i'm thinking he's cheating or getting other girls number. It seem like i'm going crazy. but he is a good man by taking care of me. he said he's going to give me a car and move me in with him when he get his on place. sholud i use him for the car and some where to stay or should I move on?
2006-07-07 05:40:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Um, yeah...He sounds like a jacka$$. He's not a good man. Anybody who lies, cheats, and abuses is not even close to being a "good man". He's not taking care of you. If he bought you a car and moved you in with him, he'd probably have his name on the title to the car and his name on the lease, so you won't be able to leave him b/c he can report the car as stolen if you take it when you leave and you won't have an apartment/house b/c that's where he'll be. He's setting you up to have no options but him. It's a classic abuser strategy to gain more control. Run, don't walk away...
2006-07-07 05:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on.When he gets you in a place with him and he is paying the bills,the abuse will continue.He will tell that it is his house he does what he wants.Has he ever told you that he is the only one who wants you or he is the only one who cares about you?Does he still let you talk to your friends?If any of this has happened GET OUT NOW while you still can cause if you stay for a car that he paid for you will never get it.And after he hits you is it OH BABY I AM SO SORRY IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN.Well my ex boyfriend promised me everything including if you leave me I will kill you,and he almost did and I was living with him,so please do not make that mistake,take it from someone who knows.Honey if he is hitting you,he DOES NOT LOVE YOU.You dont hurt someone you love,I found out the hard way but I thank GOD I am still around to help other people in similar situations.Dont move in with him please.
2006-07-07 06:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by psrs1976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing these things now? What is he going to do to you later? You need to get away from people who are hurting you --its not worth the heartache later in life the longer you are there in this the harder it is to leave---do not put any more of your time in on him ----love yourself and allow yourself to be found by someone who really care for you--then you will see what giving love and receiving love is all about ---its a two way street
God Bless you that you are kept safe till you leave this man
2006-07-07 05:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. if he's already done that to you moving in with him will not change anything. it will make it easier for him to hurt you physically also since the two of you will be in a place alone together with no witnesses to prevent it. if you move in with this guy and accept his car it will be that much harder to cut ties when you really need to. i speak from experience when i tell you it will only get worse. get out while you can before he wrecks your credit and your friendships with people who matter more than him. and before he puts you in the hospital or gets somebody else pregnant and makes you look like a fool even worse
2006-07-07 05:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by venusblu06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to move on. Especially if he has already tried to hurt you before, it would only get worse. A car is not as important as your dignity and self respect. You also need to look into getting some counseling for yourself to overcome this situation. It isn't easy to get out of a realtionship where you are being treated poorly, a lot of women actually start feeling as though they deserve the poor treatment. Trust me I know.
Get help for yourself, and get out of the relationship.
2006-07-07 05:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should move on cuz nobody should be in that kind of relationship. sure, he takes care of you and everything like that, but you cant always listen to your heart cuz sometimes it leads you in the wrong direction. but in this situation, you should go with what you brain is telling you and move on no matter how much you are in love. its no telling how long it'll be before he starts goin upside your head. not saying he will, but if he has tried before, then if he gets really mad, he might jus go crazy.
2006-07-07 06:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by piano_chick_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his a** NOW! If he is lying and cheating it's not going to stop, he thinks he can dominate you and if he has started hurting you physically then leave now before he seriously hurts you or worse. There are guys who will be good to you, don't settle for this jerk.
2006-07-07 05:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by nahimana34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better, don't allow this type of behavior in your relationship because it will only get worse. By cheating physically your boyfriend is in disregard for your health. Love yourself more and move on, your worth better.
2006-07-07 05:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by TheGr8st 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get out of that relationship before he hurts you terribly! And if he has cheated on you then you really need to get to a clinic to make sure that your health isn't in risk of diseases. The abuse starts as a small slap or something and then becomes a huge fist in your face. Please, get away from him and even file charges on him. Don't wait...get away now before you get your face bruised. take it from me...I lost 2 teeth from one blow. No car is worth that!!
2006-07-07 05:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if hes cheating on you and trying to hurt you, he's not a good man.He's not even a real man at all to be honest about it.
Move on.
2006-07-07 05:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by trc_6111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋