she didn't succeed by the way, but she was a mutual friend and it's only now that i've been told by others that she really did her best to get with him for a long time. i'm so angry with her!
2006-07-07 05:32:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I would arrange it so that the three of you are in the same room with a bunch of people. I would be so nice to her, asking her how she's been - all that. Then at some point I would sit in my boyfriend's lap and make a point of telling people how lucky you are to have such a faithful man when all kinds of ho's and sluts have been throwing themselves at him for such a long time, even so-called "friends." Then look right at her and say so nicely with this smug look on your face, "Women are just SO desperate these days, don't you think?"
2006-07-07 05:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Feel sorry for her? There must be something wrong with someone who has so little respect for a friend enough to do such a thing. It usually boils down to jealousy/envy. I have found in the past, when this happened to a friend of mine, that the girl was seriously envious of my friend and wanted to be like her as she was special and really well liked. Basically, the girl thought that if she had everything my friend had, she could be as amazing as her. She also didn't get what she wanted and it turned out she was obssessed with my friend, not in love with her boyfriend afterall. She was mad!
2006-07-07 13:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the only good solution to this problem is confrontation. Do not say a single word just walk up and punch her in the mouth when she staggers follow up with a series of body blows after she falls kick her in the roibs and walk away the secret here is not talking she knows what she did now everyone knows what happens whem they cross you and will go out of their way to treat you with respect lest they take a whipping too
2006-07-07 12:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by wardog1370 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is petty. Don't do anything except stay away from her. Besides, he's not a toy that you can simply "steal." If he were that easy to take away, he really didn't want to be with you in the first place. Luckily, it sounds like he loves being with you. You can't MAKE someone love you, as your friend has proven.
Just be a good person.
2006-07-07 12:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by bwjordan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever judge from Hearsay. Let this issue die and treat her politely. Over time make an effort to forgive her and let her be your Friend again.
This is very rewarding in the long run and you will end up a better person.
2006-07-07 12:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the bigger person. You still have your boyfriend and she was unsuccessful. At least you now know that she is not trustworthy. Move on because anything less will just cause unwanted stress and a potentially worse situation. You have already won! Of course laugh hilariously within yourself everytime you pass her...but she isn't worth your time.
2006-07-07 12:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by bsmt21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing - trust Karma so sort her out. At least that way you don't risk lowering yourself to her level.
Although, making a point of being 'extra loving' with your bloke whenever she's around would rub her nose in it a bit, and she can't prove your doing anything malicious, cos for all she knows your like that all the time.
2006-07-07 12:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by beflihippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her, and feel sorry for her that she has to resort to trying to steal someone away rather then being able to find someone on her own. Congratulate your boyfriend for being true to you, and know that you are the better person for not stooping to her level.
2006-07-07 12:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything if i was you - you've got him at the end of the day and not her. This speaks for itself. Just try not to let her bother you (I know that will be hard not to get angry) but you have him and not her. This will piss her off big style knowing she tried and lost. :-)
2006-07-07 12:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have him. You cant steal a person. Your boyfreind was probably cheating on you anyway. You have not lost a thing only regained your life and freedom. Your boyfreind is not a monkey,maybe he his,nevertheless he can think and choose for himself and it appears thats what he has done.
2006-07-07 12:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋