She says its because we are passed "the winning them over stage". I still like to pleasure her and most my guy friends say their girl loves giving oral because it makes them so happy. Do you do it to keep you man happy or cause you enjoy it. I am getting neither
2006-07-07 05:15:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I do it because I love to, and I love to swollow.
2006-07-07 05:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Nascar 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is all about loving the person your with. Like was said before the "winning you over stage" is just juvenile! is their someone else trying to gain your attention because when you win something over it is because something or someone else could have one it. She should be showing her love for you for the rest of your relationship not just in the beginning. I suggest you move on to an adult.
2006-07-07 13:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by raynelley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion, I only give oral to make my other happy. And it is a winning them over thing. If I never did it again I wouldn't die.
2006-07-07 12:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by annie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do it for my husband for both reasons. I think its funny that she calls it the "winning them over stage" LMAO She needs to grow up and realize its not about winning u over. I think you should perform the same as you have always. There is no need to stop certain things because she has won you over already. What about keeping you? Good luck with Mrs. Prude!
2006-07-07 12:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by silki_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My GF never enjoyed doing it either. But she would do it for me, because she knew that I enjoyed it. After a while, she actually started to enjoy it, and loves it now, so its fun for both of us. Just be understanding, and ask her to do if for you once in a while, and as she gets more comfortable with you the frequency should increase. Is she hates it, and it is no fun for her then find some things that are fun for both of you. Good luck!
2006-07-07 12:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by johnhategoblins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she's a bit selfish. I could understand if that's all you wanted, and you expected her to do it for hours (sore neck..jaw..arms, etc) but geez.. I do it because I enjoy it, and because he loves it.. not because I'm trying to win him over. (of course, I do love to know that I have a special talent..*S* )
What else is she going to stop doing because you're past the winning them over stage.. shaving her legs, armpits? Showering? If you wanted to be cynical you could say the same to her..and just stop pleasuring her altogether and bring a deck of cards, or a book to bed.
2006-07-07 12:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Always M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she doesn't like it. If it's flavor... try eating more pineapple! You should always be trying to win each other over. do you give her oral?
2006-07-07 13:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Fraula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. Because I enjoy it and because it makes him happy.
2006-07-07 12:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Miriam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt really enjoy it for some reason. maybe you should ask her why, its not acceptable to say 'different stage of relationship' as she might start treating you in other ways you might not like.
2006-07-07 12:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamweaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. I enjoy making my partner happy, and when he's happy he's more relaxed.
2006-07-07 12:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it for both reasons............I'm married, so the winning over stage is long gone.
2006-07-07 12:34:09 · answer #11 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋