i tried to masturbate many times..and after a short period of time ia have this itchy bitter sweet feeling and when i have it i tend to grab the area between my thighs until it stops and takes about 5 seconds...i kinda like it .it is not that great great feeling though..so is that orgasm??if it is then i dont wanna have sex ever:)it is not worth it..what do u think??
2006-07-07 05:06:57 · 14 answers · asked by whatever 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sounds like a clitoral orgasm. But hun do not give up. Intercourse can be wonderful as far as different sensations. A vaginal orgasm occurs inside and it is a totally differnet experience. WOW. These are less common though and may take time to get. Sex is not the best thing in the world but remember, women are much different than men when it comes to the way we disifer sex. Its more of a emotion than a physical feeling alone.
2006-07-07 05:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
While an orgasm is realized physically, it is actually a mental process. When masturbating, you are limited to what your imagination can produce. Those with a very active and vivid imagination may have a fairly successful orgasm. However, nothing is like the real thing when it is experienced with someone you are in love with. Love is, "Placing the interests and desires of another above your own". When you are masturbating, you are only seeking to please yourself. That is really the opposite of what happens when you are involved in a love based relationship with another.
2006-07-07 05:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by chuckwoods212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but the real thing is so much better. Also, the orgasm is about more than momentary satisfaction. It has a psychological impact that is important to realize.
While you are having this funny feeling, your brain gets sort of reset to default. It calms you and resolves some inner contradictions.
Good question!
2006-07-07 05:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you get almost there but don't actually finish it. if it was a real orgasm then after the itchy bittersweet feeling would come this release of cumming that feels really good , and when that happens ur legs and stuff get stiff and u kinda cant move until it stops. try next time to do it a bit longer until you feel this mega powerful awesome feeling , then you'll ***
2006-07-07 05:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
womens orgasms differ from mens so i cant even pretend to know but if what ive had described to me is true then women tend to have different levels of orgasms so what you have experienced may be in fact an orgasm however it may have been a smaller one than what has been described to you from others
2006-07-07 05:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by kenshiro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women experience rhythmic contractions.
I can't say whether what you have constitutes an orgasm, though.
The conventional wisdom is that when you have one, then you know you've had one.
2006-07-07 05:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like you're over-stimulating yourself. Try a softer touch and some lubrication.
2006-07-07 05:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it itches there to it feels good but why would I wanna sex myself for it makes u seem like a lesbo when your not
2006-07-07 05:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by tykasia32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not quite an orgasm you were almost there. almost keep going. when you have one you will know. Trust me you Will know.
2006-07-07 05:09:22 · answer #9 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this...
http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm
2006-07-07 05:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by stepmomster22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋