i am on my gf computer right now but....... if i dont like working..and i feel depressed all the time bout going to work...and i need to pay bills...yet i still cant seem to muster up enough will power to just get up out of the bed to even get dressed for work....is that bad ?
2006-07-07 05:05:51 · 16 answers · asked by poohbear 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
yes, it's a bit bad. you should see if you can make things better.
2006-07-07 05:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by ssurprize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's bad. I think that is human nature to not want to work. My boyfriend has a criminal record, he is behind in child support (because he can't find a job), and very depressed. I am still with him after 5 years because he treats me like a queen. Everybody is jealous of our relationship and I feel that it would be selfish of me to leave him at a time when he needs someone the most. If I was in his position, I wouldn't want the person I love to leave me. I hate when people say "You need to leave him and find someone better". They don't know the whole story, they just hear what they want to hear. The point of my story is depression is serious. Don't let it get to you like that. Life is to short and remember, there is always someone worse off than you. Hope this helps, good luck with everything.
2006-07-07 05:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by #1 due 06/17/10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not good ...,,,
but it depends on your situation
maybe you just need a break from work to enjoy life a little
maybe you jus couldnt be stuffed goin at all
there are plenty of ways to get motivated and plenty of things that you need to consider for the future....
first of all you need to think about your independance
your gf needs that to look up to you to depend on you and know that you will always be there to support her
and especially if you have bills to pay ..... bills will always be there they will never go away : ( and if you think you are going to struggle with this then you really need to start thinking straight ..... If supporting your gf and having extra money to take her nice places and paying your bills means alot to you .... I think that getting up early in the morning getting dressed and going to work is worth it dont you? : )
2006-07-07 05:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by ¸•¨*•.¸AnGeL¸.•*¨•¸ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're either depressed or getting depressed about something. I think you should take some time to yourself to seek a solution to the issue. Find someone you can trust to talk to, it's important that you get this out of your system so that you can go on with your life - happy that is.
2006-07-07 05:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats pretty bad.. its called laziness everyone strikes the laziness pattern but you have responsibilities to treasure you g/f and help her with the bills.
2006-07-07 05:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Heather L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily "bad" but your functioning is impaired. Get a medical (psychiatric) consult.
2006-07-07 05:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by ajibik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it man. you gf and yourself depends on YOU going to work and making that money. if you really dont like your job switch careers.
2006-07-07 05:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by Journey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go find a job you will enjoy
2006-07-07 05:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your lazy fat a$$ out, and support your GF, ..............now did that work
2006-07-07 05:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by Darthritus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think you lazy *** face, get on welfare so you can be a further drain on our society!!
2006-07-07 05:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋