my friend and I want 2 HAVE SEX soon but IM SCARED CAUSE HE doesnt want 2 USE A condom what should i do?

Answer 1

no condom no nookie

Answer 2

DO NOT have sex with him without a condom. A few minutes of pleasure is not worth having a baby when you are not ready. Especially with someone who is only a friend. He doesn't want to use a condom because he's not the one who has to carry around a baby for 9+ months. Just think of what you will have to go through if you do get pregnant. Good luck.

Answer 3

Don't have sex without a condom. From a teen mom to a future teen mom, don't be a teen mom! If he won't use a condom then forget about it. How many other girls did he stick that thing in? He could give you warts or tons of other nasty things besides the risk of having a kid when you're 14. I know alright, I've been there. I never got an STD but do you really want to explain to your parents how you got pregnant or gonorrhea?

Answer 4

First of all, are you sure you want to have sex with your friend? Sex changes everything in a friendship and usually ruins it, unless you both want a serious relationship together.

Second, how dare your friend request that you don't use a condom? Does he want you to get pregnant? Does he want to support the possible baby for the next 18 years of his life with any money he earns? Has he ever changed a stinky diaper, or had to stay up all night every night to soothe a screaming baby? Ask him these questions, seriously.

Think of yourself, too. What if your friend has a nasty disease he hasn't told you about, like AIDS or genital warts? He might not even know he has these diseases himself. You'll get any nasty disease he has on his penis if he doesn't wear a condom.

If he doesn't respect you enough to wear a condom when you ask, he doesn't deserve to have you. Respect yourself and don't let him get what he wants. If is dead set on never wearing one, he's a loser and just wants to use you. In that case, he's DEFINITELY not your real friend... avoid him at all costs!

Answer 5

PLEASE! DO NOT DO IT!

Don't let him persuade you into doing something that you KNOW will put you at risk.

Ask him if he is prepared to be a father in 9 months and to support and raise a baby? Make him spend an entire day taking care of a baby before you take him seriously so that he'll have a small idea of what he could be getting the both of you into.

It's a chance, but a GOOD chance that it could happen. It has happened for millions of people on a chance.

Ask him if he is willing to compromise both of your futures for a few minutes of pleasure. Don't let him pressure you into doing anything you KNOW isn't smart or safe.

Answer 6

You should find another friend. Anyone that doesn't respect your safety and your life is no friend and flat out selfish and inconsiderate. He seems to want to take the chance of complicating your life for his physical satisfaction. You should....no, you must not engage in unprotected sex. Im a guy, i've been around the block and seen all the stop signs and mailboxes...just protect yourself and the good friends are the ones that respect you and your safety first and foremost.

Answer 7

hey girls i am 18 years old and i have one baby boy and another baby on the way and the first baby came because the guy didn't want to use protection our first time and we thought it would be OK but i got pregnant anyway and my son is now 1yr and 3 months old and he is gonna have a sibling in January but this baby we actually used protection and i still got pregnant so you just really need to think about it before you make a mistake and if you are ready to have sex are you ready to be a mommy just in case something happens. there are a lot of things that i think you girls should think about but i cant make the decision for you and neither can anyone else so good luck if you want to talk to me about anything else here is my email address [e-mail] feel free to email me or instant messenger me anytime

Answer 8

Hon, unless your ready to become a mommy and have no social life, I would tell him that unless he uses a condom there will be no sex. It is just not worth it, trust me. The consequences stink and being a mom full time is no fun unless that is what you want. You make the decision and stick with it and if he doesn't like it, kick him to the curb.

Answer 9

Are you in a committed relationship? Have you both been recently tested for HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)? Have you discussed other birth control options? The pill, ring, IUD, patch, spermicidal jelly, sponge, etc. will not protect you from HIV. "Pulling out" is not a good form of birth control, nor does it protect you from HIV or STDs. Only a barrier method will help protect you from HIV. Have you thought about trying a female condom?

In general, my opinion is, anyone who refuses to use a condom is not worthy of sex. Your health is more important than sex. Its not worth the risk of HIV, STDs or pregnancy. If he says condoms are uncomfortable, ask him if he's comfortable with child support payments. Ask yourself if you are comfortable with the possibility of taking expensive drugs for the rest of your life to manage HIV/AIDS.

In short - DON'T DO IT!

Answer 10

The first thing how old are you? The second thing, it is not worth it with this guy because he is not looking in both of your best interest. If he cant understand that you want to wear one than i dont think you should sleep with him. POINT BLANK> but also make sure you have a nother form of birth control just to make sure and make sure you are emotionally ready. BUT DO NOT IF HE WONT USE ONE

Answer 11

are you on the pill cause if he doesn't want to use a condom then you should think about proecting yourself and go and get on some type of birth control and another thing you need to look deep before you leap into something later on wishing you hadn't done