I had a car service pick me up yesterday to take me to the airport. It was not a taxi so I rode in the front with the driver. He was late teens early 20's - I am 38. As we are driving along and making casual conversation I notice he is playing with himself, a LOT. He led the conversation around to being horny and just needing a BJ. Then he asked me if I was gay (which I am). It was obvious what he wanted...but I resisted - what would you have done?
2006-07-07 04:39:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He was okay looking, kind of muscular. This sort of thing happens to me a lot. Supposedly straight guys come on to me in the oddest places! I am married so I don't follow through with anyone.
2006-07-07 04:48:16 · update #1
Oh I am gay - married to a man for 16 years (Please don't tell Bush)...and I am obviously gay.
2006-07-07 09:16:17 · update #2
I'm not married...I'd've swallowed.
2006-07-07 06:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What car service was this? Well if you are commited you did the right thing, I would have probably turned him down as well, str8 bois or curious bois tend to mood swing when you are done resulting in bashing sometimes worse, not all are like this but some are. I have a similar story, a friend of mine who is str8 and married but thinks he is gay after 40 years of marriage (i suppose that will happen) was out running errands and pulled into a park that he passed alot on his way into town that he has never been in, he pulled into a parking spot and sat for a few mins, he said this guy from no where walked up got in his car and said he was out of gas and he wondered if he could get some money from my friend, he said he would do anything for it. my friend of course was thinking FINALLY! but he didn't do anything other than tell the guy well i have bills to pay when i drop them off, i will come back and give you some money, he returned and the guy was gone, guess he found somone would would give him money for servies rendered.
2006-07-07 05:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you had something to do with this. I use a limo or car service to get to the airport, and I sit in the back. That's the door they hold open for you. You sit up front why? So you can flirt. So you can check out his package? Guys don't risk their job propositioning other men who might turn them in. You had to give off some signals that you were open to such an invitation.
Since you didn't oblige him, I'll say you were just teasing him. Be careful, one day this could cause you some embarassment or you might even end up teasing someone who could do you bodily harm! It is a bad game to play.
2006-07-07 11:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably I would have recommended that he not endanger himself in such ways. What if you were a basher and decided to harm him? Obviously he never thought of that, or else your language or your body language made him think you would be receptive to his "invitation." Reporting him to his employer would not be constructive, and playing his game would only urge him to think he could get away with this kind of thing again, and he could start down a slippery slope toward truly dangerous and illegal behavior. For the moment he is young and maybe getting his kicks, but that is no excuse for making other people feel uncomfortable or even violated.
2006-07-07 06:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by fall2005buseng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with iahp_mom. It doesn't matter if someone is straight or gay--that behavior is simply unacceptable.
Another alternative to complaining would to have told the guy to shut up. Either that, or completely ignore him, depending on how your confrontational skills are. He has a scary lack of boundaries.
2006-07-07 04:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by mizchulita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the car service and complain. being gay or straight doesn't change the fact that this guy is a sleeze. Count yourself lucky that he wasn't pushier
2006-07-07 04:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by iahp_mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had a place to go and you were attracted and you had time - maybe. But certainly not in public out in a car. Great way for you to be arrested.
2006-07-07 05:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of done it, and maybe even asked the guy out on a date. To see if our little escapade could go any further.
2006-07-07 06:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did that, then he was not truly straight
and all of the other guys who did that
i would have broke his jaw with a swift punch and claimed self-defence because i felt my life was in danger
2006-07-07 04:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut of his Johnson!
2006-07-07 04:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have problemly got his phone number and asked him can we hook up later
2006-07-07 04:56:48 · answer #11 · answered by Dick Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋