I had sex w my friend, while we were totaly aware. It's been a week and we haven't talk together, he didn't call me and me niether. I have no idea what does he think, and what is he looking for, is that gonna continue? is he looking for a relationship or just sex? what should I do? I just feel so weird:(
2006-07-07 04:13:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hit it again !!!
2006-07-07 04:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Brad Z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex usually hurts friendships. No matter how hard you try to make things normal again, it can never really be the same afterwards. He was probably happy with your friendship as it was, but because sex has now come into the picture (which was probably very hard for him to resist) everything has changed and he's probably very confused about where things stand now. He's probably not sure if he even wants a serious romantic relationship with you.
Talk to him about it, and tell him how awkward you feel. He'll probably be glad to know you feel the same way. Ask him if he wants to start having a romantic relationship with you, or if he wants to just remain friends.
If not, you've learned a very painful lesson about sex and friendship. Be careful next time!
2006-07-07 11:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by roxygirl_1183 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know the answers to your questions unless you ask. Right? Well, be the bigger person and ask. Call him! "He what's up?!" "Soooo, you wanna meet for a burger or somethin?" And let it go from there. Dont need to bring up the sex thing, that'll just make both of you uncomfortable.
By the way, friends are usually the best relationships cuz you know each other the best! She keep the ball rolling.
2006-07-07 11:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either as confused as you, or, had enough of you and want to move on.
Anyway, sex will spoils a relation. Just take time heals. But be reminded that the relation will not be as cordial anymore.
You will feel weird, so will he. Just take a while, see how he respond. My suggestion is, if you are not serious with him, move on. If you are serious, take a break, go approach him in a weeks or two time. When you are ready to speak.
2006-07-07 11:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by Melvin C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely call him. You guys are making it akward by not talking. If it's meant to turn into something, then it will. If it's not, then it was just a good time between friends. But, don't let it come between your friendship.
2006-07-07 11:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nicholas W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just wants to be friends he will have just got horny and looked for the closest girl lol. No offense but Ive been there myself. AND PLEASE don't make a bit deal out of it.
Just chat to him and see how he feels
2006-07-07 11:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call hum, Hun. Find out whats going on in his head....The one sitting on his shoulders, That is.
2006-07-07 11:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by j t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is best if you want him then let him know, if you just want to be his friend from now on then call him and let him know....... Just let him know what you want your a woman you'll get it..
2006-07-07 11:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by hoebag82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you call him and ask. He's the one with the answers.
2006-07-07 11:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not talking to you i think he was wanting some pussy and that was the whole deal
2006-07-07 11:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should call them and talk to them about it
2006-07-07 11:18:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋