If two people have been friends for a long time and one of them has feelings for the other and have had since the beginning of their friendship, should they stay friends or is it not good for them?? Will the person with feelings ever just see the other one as only a frined and nothing more??
2006-07-07 04:13:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is it selfish then that i dont want to get out of their life because i really enjoy being with them but just want friendship? I would realy miss them - a lot!
2006-07-07 04:22:27 · update #1
i just also want to say, i was in this situation before too with someone else but i didnt want to stay friends with them so i didnt so i dont know if its to do with the attention because they were very good to me but i just didnt like it. But just now i really like spending time with this guy and he had a girlfriend and i wasnt jealous at all. I think maybe if he can find a girl he really like, we can be friends and he wont feel the same anymore.
2006-07-07 04:39:28 · update #2
Yes, but in the end it will put a strain on the friendship. I was in that situation before and I must say it is not a comfortable position to be in. I fought to stay friends and so did he, but the constant talk of wanting to take out friendship to a new level was wearing me out. We are not friends anymore because of other reasons, but that one fact (mentioned before) may have contributed to the departure.
You also asked would the person ever just see them as only a friend. I say it is possible, but when the other person starts to date someone else (while remaining friends with you), you might find yourself a lil envious. Might be envious or jealous because the attention in that area that he/she lavished onto you been removed. Once taken off you, you will find yourself doing things to prove to yourself that this said friends still wants you and that you could have him/her if you wanted to. All of these actions performed to prove a point to yourself: that your friend’s new lover has nothing on you.
2006-07-07 04:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by theone-N-only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember....some of the best marriages start out as friendships. Remain friends with the person, but keep your feelings to yourself. Eventually they may start to feel the same.
2006-07-07 11:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is typical high school stuff.
In general, men and women cannot be friends unless the woman is ugly (and that is a suspect statement as well).
Men are pathetic and will hang around the girl in the hope that she will learn the "error of her ways" - the proverbial, "in case of emergency, break glass" boyfriend.
2006-07-07 11:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by lawman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope .. he/she will continue to have feeling .. friendship can turn to love but love never turn to only friendship !! if you accept to take advantage from that person who has feelings for you cause he's/she's gonna treat you like a special person then go on on that "friendship " .. if not then get out of their life as gentle as you can .. its better for them
2006-07-07 11:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont work out because one is unfulfilled.... sorry to tell you
2006-07-07 11:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-07 11:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by catfan99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋