If a person who has divorced parents has a problem, sometimes they dont always feel as if they can talk about things as well as someone who might have both parents living under the same roof. do they feel as if their parents will abandon them as well if they were to go to their parents with something personal or important.?
2006-07-07 04:07:17 · 4 answers · asked by Ally L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
TEENS HAVE A HARD TIME GROWING UP AS IT IS
having parents divorce can be such a hard pill to swallow
There have hormones jumping up and down as it is but with a big change like parents not being together anymore must be hell
some may think it is there fault this has happened teens need to be spoken to you can not wrap them up in cotton wool because that never works thinking they would not understand
believe me you have to go step by step and explain that both parents love there child they have to feel wanted and cared for it is no good shouting them out
that is were they get depressed and there attitude changes and everything in there life changes hope this has helped
respect
shaz
2006-07-07 04:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by sharon B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents will NEVER abandon you. They got divorced because they were having a problem with eachother, not with you. If you have something personal or important to talk about, I'm sure either parent would be more than happy to discuss it with you. Yes...you could be depressed, but honey, suicide is not the answer. If you truly feel this way, you have to talk to your mom and dad and let them know. You have a whole life ahead of you. You may need to see a counsellor to help you get through this. But the first step is.....explain to your mom and dad how you're feeling. Nothing is more important than that!!!
2006-07-07 04:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we all get that way you just have to step back and look at he upside. Not to diminish your problems (I have to do this my self sometimes). Your probably sitting at home chillin in the ac watchin tv playing on the computer, no matter what happens with these things you Know tomorrow you wont be hungry or homeless. Really life is pretty good. Could be a lot worse there are homeless people out there with no legs and nothin to eat. Your probably just thinkin to much. As for your dad ease up on him a little hes probably trying to deal with his problems to in a different way (so hes not thinking to much). The best reason to live is so the ones that hate you don't win.
2016-03-27 07:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes in some case but the parents will not abandon the kids it better to let them live separate than have them fight all the time trust me
2006-07-07 04:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋