Okay so my ex broke up with me because he thought I cheated on him. His bestfriend which is a girl who has liked him since they were little told him I was .... and I didnt! Since then she has told him plenty of other stuff about me that aint true. Like that I had been messin around with this guy ever since we started datin last year...and we still are. I have tried many times to tell him the truth but he wont listen. I guess I just want him to believe me but I dont know how to. I mean he wont talk to me or anwser my phone calls. So if any of yall have suggestions (sp?) please tell me!!
Thanks in advance
2006-07-07 03:30:55 · 31 answers · asked by champkarter13 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
give him evidence that youre not guilty
2006-07-20 10:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by pollo0098 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off. I think he will find out the truth. Also maybe you are coming on too strong. Just let it go for a while then try calling and dont blame her just tell him that you have never cheated on him but he can believe what he wants, youknow the truth and that is all that matters. I think he will believe then.
2006-07-18 05:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just jealous, start spreading rumours about her. Or tell him untrue stuff about her. If he doesn't listen ask him, "Can you prove that I have done all those things that stupid fool says to you? Find me some proof, because I know she is lying, she's a jealous rat." Otherwise move on, your ex will probably find out the truth sometime or another, and if he starts asking you out again just ignore him! Hope this will help!
Take care
2006-07-07 03:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let him do what he wants because since he has been accussing you of cheating. 9 times out of 10 hes the one cheating. Been there done that and i wanted my ex to listen and really understand but then i realized he was still wit his so called "ex" and he did this to us for about 8 months. So girl hold your head up high and let him know he lost something good!
2006-07-21 00:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough cause how do you compete with his bestfriend. You have your own mini soap opera going on.
Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn't trust you or love you. If he trusted you he would have believed you and not his friend. That is dis respectful.
It is so clear now that the bestfriend cares for your boyfriend and wants you out of the picture.
Unless you h ave proof that she is lying he is then he won't believe you.
2006-07-19 14:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww. that sucks girl- but move on. one day he'll realize his mistake & that you weren't lying at that time you just won't give a damn...
Ps... you could spread rumors about his best friend- get even girl. Don't let her get to you..
what's next... the next guy you date- they'll hear the rumor that she started and that guy will break up with you too.
Take a stand- you know the truth- just say something well how do you now-prove it or do you sleep around too- to know what it's all about
2006-07-18 13:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by bugz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you still love him? if not then you should leave him a note saying that you didn't cheat but you are moving on anyway. if you do love him you need to find a place where he can't immediatly leave so you can talk. let him know everything and that you really still care about him and your "best friend" is a BEEP BEEPIN liar! somehow you also need to get the truth out of your "best friend."
2006-07-07 03:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by [♥that girl♥] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter. If all you want to tell him is the truth write him a letter and send it to his house, don't stick it in his locker. Just write from the heart. If he still doesn't believe you, that's okay, at least you were able to tell him how you felt. It's his loss.
2006-07-20 08:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have a talk with him and tell him why don't you believe me .i mean i would never do that 2 you and if someone told me that you were cheating on me you wouldnt like it if i belived it without proof so don't believe what your best friend said unless she got proof.and if that doest work i will break up with him and make him think
!!!!!!! hope everything works out well !!!!!!!!
2006-07-07 03:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by Gammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two suggestions.
ONE-where a wire and talk to the girl thats been lieing to him and get her to spill what she has done.
TWO-tell your man right away (before he has the chance to say "not now") "you need to hear what im saying to you!" then tell him whats bein up
2006-07-07 04:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by redhead hottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so if his best friend is tellin him thing that means that she want to go out with him. that happend to me too. I told her thta if she going to him thing im going to start tellin everybobby thing that are not true.she stop nd i got bak together but it was uly she started beating him up. but im yung and i can allways tell the teacher just let it be he'll fing out that its not true soon
2006-07-07 03:38:37 · answer #11 · answered by You Love Me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋