Just say the ex is bothering the girl to go back with her but she now has a new friend considering they arnt dateing but they might like to soon and she loves this new guy but the ex keeps calling her and making her feel bad and desperate by saying he'll kill himself. Shouldnt she just tell him that she cant talk to him anymore?
2006-07-07 02:58:46 · 20 answers · asked by mychemfanatic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes,
2006-07-07 03:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Yes Yes
2006-07-07 10:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by TL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I have an ex like that NOW! *sighs*
The best thing to do is to tell your gf that if she is going to take his calls to make them short 'What do you want?' calls. Once he starts telling her all that BS, tell her to hang up and not take his calls for the rest of the day. If it continues, just tell her that she shouldnt take his calls period.
If someone is suicidal, the other person they are trying to blame needs to understand that it is NOT thier fault and that they [the ex in this case] should seek emotional help. Maybe have her text him a crisis number with a note saying, I care about you enough to want you to get help with your problems, and only after that, can we become friends again.
It should send him a wake up call.
2006-07-07 10:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by *meh* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do for him, is to let him go. He is just looking for attention and you need to let him go so he can heal. He will just continue to hold on and it will eventually interfere with your new relationships. Tell him that you loved him enough to let him go. That he needs to get some help to move on because you already have. You will see in time, maybe a year from now, if you run into him, that he will be thankful. Not right now, but in the future... Let him go.
2006-07-07 10:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by chihuahuas2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, he's not going to kill himself. He says that to get your attention so you won't break up with him. Also if your feelings really are not there for him then its not fair for either of you. Just end the relationship, but don't jump back and forth between guys.
2006-07-07 10:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she needs to just put him out of her life. The only way that she will ever be able to move on to the next level with her new guy is if she lets the old one go. I know that she is worried about him, but the only way that her stress is going to end is if she ends it. And as long as he knows that his manipulation is going to keep her around he is going to keep doing it. If she really thinks that he is capable of doing it, 302 him, or have him talk to someone. But most likely he is just doing it to keep her around.
2006-07-07 10:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dystani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes. but she is still attached or she would put a stop to it. maybe she still wants the guy in her life. its hard sometimes to break off ties and takes some people longer than it does others.
2006-07-07 10:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she keep picking up the phone? Everyone has caller I.D. these days - if she answers his calls, there's a reason. Otherwise, she'd just let it go to voice mail.
2006-07-07 10:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously when someone tells you he is going to kill himself chances are theyre just looking for sympathy or attention either move on or what does she want it also depends on why they broke up in the first place get your friend help anyways honesty on her behalf is important. dont lead him on or he might just eventually do it?
2006-07-07 10:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by chrltthnsn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you consider your ex is not a good man and not worthy to renew your relationship then tell him straightly that you don't like him and tell hill to stay away.
2006-07-07 10:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by pyj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should, I had the same problem with my ex-wife only she never left them alone, she only encouraged them, and it does nothing but build mistrust and distances he and yourself, so yes stop talking to the ex and let the new dude know he's special
2006-07-07 10:04:41 · answer #11 · answered by theoutlawtorn77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋