2006-07-07 02:48:11 · 37 answers · asked by Lil Mama 11 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
speak to your parents or a friend. tell them why you are scared. you thought you were mature enough to have sex so now you have to deal with consequences. its your choice if you want to keep the baby or have a look at the other options. dont get forced into anything this is your choice
2006-07-07 02:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by zoe_fairy_on_acid 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
DO NOT have an abortion!!! Please do not make a baby pay for a mistake you made!
Everything happens for a reason and things will work out in the end. Don't be scared, just relax and try to enjoy the time the best you can.
DO talk to family, a doctor, and any friends you feel may help. This is a big responsibility that could have been prevented but when it is all over will be well worth it.
Make sure and take care of yourself, stay healthy, and don't stress out!
Good Luck! I wish you a very happy and healthy nine months!
2006-07-07 03:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by mom2abigsis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you probably are scared! I am 30 and found out I am pregnant and I am scared, too. You need someone you can trust... your mom or an older friend or relative (cousin, aunt) You need to know how far along you are and what options are available to you. You'll be ok. All of lifes struggles will make you stronger! Just know you will get through this and everything will be fine!! Goodluck.
2006-07-07 03:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by sleepwalkin smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your mom take you to the doctor for a check up and let the doctor tell her. Together you should decide what the best course of action is right for you and your family. Personally I think 12 is too young to go threw a pregnancy and delivery and I would have an abortion, BUT that may not be right for you or your family. So like I said go to the doctor with your mom and your two TALK!!
Good luck
2006-07-07 02:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Just me.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were adult enough (and you have the nerve to tell your age, as if it matters) to open your legs to have sex, then you should be adult enough to carry a child. I'm pro-choice but I don't think people should abuse the ability to have an abortion!!! If you can't handle having a child, then you should give your child up for adoption. There are so many who are not able to have babies. Maybe next time you'll be a little more careful and smart!!! OH YEAH AND BY THE WAY, YOU SHOULDN'T EVEN BE HAVING SEX AT 12, WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS?????
2006-07-07 02:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be really scared but there is hope. You need people around you who will love you the way Jesus loves you. Trust me. Jesus is the only one who can help you... but he works through humans so get yourself into a church were they believe in the bible the holy ghost and that Jesus is risen from the grave. These people if real christians wont condemn you but will have compassion as I have having read you question... God can turn your life around just give him a chance go to a church where others can tell you the gospel.. the good news... that Jesus christ died and rose again for people just like you.
2006-07-07 02:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by zak j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and if you are not going to take care of the baby put the child up for adoption. You should have not been having sex in the first place, you are too young, you are just a child anyway. Apparently you were not scared when you laid up with that boy.
2006-07-07 04:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck this world is coming 2. Pregnant @ 12.
Girls are u crazy - well i am not here to critize u - Just have the baby and afterward u can put her for adoption - NO ABORTION.
2006-07-07 04:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by islandboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late to ask you why you were having sex at 12; but anyway, I'm not into abortion. You should contact someone and talk with them about adoption if you are not interesting in keeping the baby. You need to talk to your parents also! And what about the baby's father? What's his situation?
2006-07-07 02:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by lollygagger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late for what do you do. What you should have done is not had sex. You're still a kid at 12 who's now going to have a kid. Get used to the idea Mom. Your life and your socializing is going to be non existent while you raise your baby. I hope you find it was worth it.
2006-07-07 02:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 12 and pregnant?! wow, uh...thats not good. well, scared is the correct reponse to have. but you need to get over that. unfortunatly, its time to grow up. im not a fan of abortion, so i dont propse that. first, id talk to your parents about it...you will need all the help you can get! then id tell the father. then you need to decide whether you want to keep it or give it up. you wanted to engage in adult activities, time to face the adult responsibilities and consequences that come along with them! it stinks you got yourself in this situation, but now you have to think about that little person growing inside of you. good luck
2006-07-07 02:53:26 · answer #11 · answered by aaronne07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋