My friend is mean to me and never invites me anywhere anymore?

Question

me and my friend have been friends since 2nd grade. this year we made a new friend. She now only invites our new friend over and to everywhere she goes. i talked to her about it and she said u cna come over tues.so i was liek ok. tues day she got mad at me because she was dgraggin me and i told her to stop so i slapped her on the arm for defense. She invited the other friend over that day. I had to walk home from school cuz my mom thought i was goig yoher house. Then she got mad at me for inviting over the other frend over once. she was tellign me i olnly did it to make her jeulous. So few days lata she invites me and hananh to her aunts house. The day before we go she calls and syas her aunt said she can only invite one person over and i asked hannah first so she is comin.she told me she didnt want to be my frend cause im sensitive and i always get amd.she always calls me mean naems all the time. She causes me to cry and hate myself.How do i get my friend to like me and not be mean

Answer 1

time to move on, lots of fish in the sea,

and believe me! once she realizes that you don't need her anymore, she will get a shock and run back.

The only solution here is time.

There is a saying: "if you have a bird let it go, if it comes back to you it was yours, if it does not, it never was"

I know it is difficult to let go a good friend, but this is a way life teaches us about new experiences as broken engagements with a boy or a divorce with a husband. This is part of time and everyone is going via times like that, if they like to admit or not.

Get a new hobby, art, judo, or something interesting so that you can meet more friends and who knows, your friend might see another side of you and will follow...

Best of luck, just keep strong. And dont slap her but be firm about her treating you good. If any friend would slap me they would never see me again. But it is a fact, I would also not drag them.

now by professionals:

Ten ways to make new friends
1. Figure out who you want to be friends with and why you like these people.
2. Get involved with after-school activities such as sports, religious groups, or other things that interest you.
3. Introduce yourself and remember names.
4. Work on good conversation skills so that you get better at both listening and talking.
5. Be sensitive to other people.
6. Take compliments politely without seeming full of yourself, and give compliments to others in a sincere way.
7. Take your time making friends.
8. Be willing to risk rejection – it’s possible someone may not be open to making new friends. (it’s important to take a chance!)
9. Be positive and upbeat.
10. Give parties to spend time with new and old friends.

Answer 2

Find a new friend, i dont think you deserve to be treated this way. I just got out of a friendship like this one. I had a bestfriend since kindergarten then i got a new bestfriend because me and that other girl wernt close any more and she stole my new friend away and they did stuff behind my back and they made up mean nicknames for me. But it all worked out anyways because my old bf was mean to my new one so they got into a fight and now neither of us talk to the first bf. Maybe your situation will work out. Just wait. If she doesnt see that she is losing some one very valuable then get a new friend. You should email me. I will be your internet friend since we have some thing in common. email me telling me wat u think : [e-mail]

Answer 3

Yep.. I know the feeling of it. It's terrible. Sometimes, the problem doesn't lies with you. It lies with your friend.

I got this experience too. Honestly speaking, I'm having this problem now. But don't worry, always remember, there are still a lot more people you can become best of friends with!

If I was you, I wouldn't do anything to get her to like me again. This kind of friend doesn't deserve it. You can still survive without her! If she wants, she'll come back to you again! Losing a great friend like you... She'll regret it! =D

Believe me. Make use of this time to make a better friend! Which you can trust, you can count on. No friend is worth your tears and the one who is, won't make you cry.

Answer 4

Sometimes friends grow apart and it's something we have to just adapt to. Hannah might be new and exciting to your friend while he or she considers you old and comfortable. In your situation, I would be patient and invite both people to go out with me still and treat them equally and wait to see what happens. I wouldn't say anything bad about either of them because one would tell the other and then you'd be shut out completely or ganged up on. Being young is hard but try to find the joy in it, if they truly exclude you, find more friends of the heart. They're out there, waiting for you to discover the good in them.

Answer 5

This is weird, The girl is inviting Hannah everywhere and telling you about it.. Maybe she wants you to know so that YOU will be jealous.
Besides who needs a friend that puts them down and cause you to hate yourself? Just ask her if you guys can talk. If she says No, then you need to go make new friends, ones that don't 'drag' you and put you down.

Answer 6

dear friend, friends are source of energy---you need a friend in every corners of life----since you know your friend since 2nd grade, it is a strong bond---but what your friend is expecting from you could have changed----be patient--read books--try to divert your mind from your friend---IF YOU ARE A TRUE FRIEND, TRY TO GIVE THE SOLACE---give a little space and use the time to improve yourSELF....you will make new friends in the process and IT IS A FACT THAT THE LONG BOND WITH YOUR FRIEND WILL NOT BREAK---it only needs to breath.

Answer 7

SHE IS OBVIOUSLY NOT YOUR FRIEND..
MAYBE YOU THOUGHT SHE WAS BECAUSE SHE WAS NICE TO YOU BUT AFTER AWHILE YOU FIND OUT WHO THAT PERSON REALLY IS...YOU CAN TRUST A PERSON RIGHT AWAY OR YOU CANT BE FRIENDS WITH THEM RIGHT AWAY UNTIL YOU SEE THE REAL THEM...LIKE THIS EXAMPLE..
YOU THOGUTH SHE WAS A FRIEND BUT IS SHE AVOIDING YOU AND NOT HANGING OUT WITH YOU..IS IT BECAUSE SHE FOUND SOME OTHER FRIEND? IF A PERSON SAYS SHE'S A FRIEND SHE'S A FRIEND WHO WILL BE THERE NO MATTER WHAT..
SHE ISNT YOUR FRIEND....FORGET ABOUT HER AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL BE A TRUE FRIEND TO YOU..

Answer 8

Forget her. She's not a good friend.

Answer 9

Stop being such a cry baby loser....nobody wants to hang out with a loser.....sack up

Answer 10

get a new friend that will treat you the way a true frind should be treated, and rub it in your old friends face