Im a girl who seems to make a lot of male friends but never finds a boyfriend, im not ugly so dont even go there - the guys just see me as too much of a friend because im too matey with them...i dont get how that happens!
What kind of personality traits do guys look for in a g/f and how does that differ from a female friend?
2006-07-07 01:49:41 · 28 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, I'm a simple guy really, all I need is a HOLE AND A HEARTBEAT!
2006-07-07 01:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem and i dont think im ugly either for that,but i think its the fact your such a good friend to people that others look at that and think you could be a good friend for them also,ya understand? But i think its a compliment to you,i mean if you have that many fellas who think your really nice and can talk to you then it just means your a good person,i went throw the same,everyone came to me with there problems and i was always gettin told what a good friend i was,while my friends were off with different women every weekend but as time went on it stopped for them and in the last few months ive ahd more luck with the ladies than they have..i think your personality wins through in the end,so dont get down cause we need good people like you in the world,so keep the faith girl!
2006-07-07 08:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too "matey" with them? I don't get that. Have you expressed your interest in any of them? Some guys - ok, fine, most guys - are really dense and view as a sister-type or they have absolutely no friggin' idea you'd be interested. Plus, if you are fairly good friends, then they don't want to put you or them in an awkward position by asking you out.
2006-07-07 08:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friends is a good start, but if you like them you need to make a move BEFORE you get to the stage where you're such good mates that a relationship could jeopardise that friendship if it didn't work out. Maybe you're acting like one of the lads? I have a lot a friends who are girls - in some cases it's that we get on really well but either I don't fancy them or they don't fancy me. Maybe you're concentrating too hard on the friendship vibe that they don't realise you like them (a lot of lads can be quite slow at noticing these things - I'm one of them haha)
2006-07-07 11:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by five-oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know im not a guy but i will try and help anyway,
it use to happen with me and i changed i started dress differently like wearing skirts and dress and make up but not too much and being a friend with a little tiny bit of flirting but not too much now i have had a lot of boyfriend but still manged to be mates after lol see work both ways
2006-07-12 19:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by smallz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a bad idea for you to look for a mate with your group of friends. The best bet would be to talk to your male friends and see if they have any friends outside your group that would be interested in you. Let them know you are interested in meeting someone special. Your friends probably think you aren't interested in any of them that way, and don't want to go over the line with you. They respect you, and since they do, when you ask them about knowing if anyone would be interested. They will try to think of the best guy for you, and treat you like the person you deserve to be treated like.
2006-07-07 08:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious things are attractive, sexy bod etc.
Personality should be easy going, fun, loving, caring - somebody who i enjoy being with. I also like a girl with at least some similar interests.
Actually my girlfriend is a very good friend and i wouldn't mind betting one of your male friends is desperate to take things to the next level with you!
2006-07-07 09:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Grizzly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a great person, stop trying so hard the right one will come along I have the same problem I have tons of girl -friends and not a girl/friend. Maybe we should get togather.
2006-07-07 09:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by iceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,maybe you are pretty and everything but you look a little too angelic,maybe you need to spice up your looking a little ,most of the guys go after the phisical appearance,i know that unfair but we are like that,try to be a little naughty and by naughty i dont mean slutty,just good naughty thing.
2006-07-07 08:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by AB 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is completely beside the point. most guys are wusses and won't ask you out because they're scared you'll say no. your friends probably hung about you in the first place since they fancy you, but didn't manage to work themselves up to it. you should just ask them out yourself and then you won't have a problem. but i guess you're not going to do that, 'cos you're probably a wuss yourself. i can probably guess what you're going to do, too. you're going to listen to some nitwit and try and act 'more like a woman', whatever the f that means. go ahead, i don't care.
2006-07-07 08:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a boyfriend, you could try flirting with the guy you want... Touch him inappropriately... ;)
Perhaps the guys you are with don't want to lose you as a good friend... Lots of girls would appreciate that... No hassle, no hurt feelings...
2006-07-07 08:58:11 · answer #11 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋