Hi,
I had had a very good friend and she wanted to make love with me.
I dint want at first because Im 29 years old and I had never done sex before and Im very shy.
(No once when I was 28first time I've tried and it was bad, unsuccesfful.)
And I was worrying to be unsuccessful again and lose my girl friend. And then we did it and I lived same problem no erection....
Next day my girl friend left me alone. She found another friend....
Now I thinking killing myself. Because I lost my friend and it will be same always. I cant blieve any more friend...
help
2006-07-07 01:43:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she leaves because of that she was not your friend. You definitely have an issue that you need to speak with your physician about. I have a friend that has the same problem. He makes excuses for it and tries to substitute with great oral sex. Sometimes viagra helps and sometimes it does not. As a friend, he confided in me about some childhood issues and I made it my business to see if I could reverse this. I tried everything to get him erect. NOPE! Hurt my feelings. It would stand tall for a quick minute and then plop. He promised to see a physician. He is now happily married so I guess he got it worked out.
2006-07-07 01:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no problem with you at all! you are just scared from your first relationship! first time is always bad.. I asked many men and they say the same. It's by practice and confidence that things gets well. You have to trust the person you're with and she has to really "care" for u first. Don't do it just because you "like" the girl". Take your time and explain to your partner what happened before and she'll be more prepared and understanding. Anyway.. if she left you for this erection probelm after the first night.. she'll leave for a broken leg in 5 years! you're better off witohut her and you're mature enough to find someone better. Don't be depressed and live your sexuality.. experiment and learn about your body. you can thank me for it later
2016-03-27 07:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a doctor and discuss your problem. Nothing to feel shy about. It may not be a physical problem but a mental problem. You need to find out what your problem is. If it is physical there is viagra or cialis which has helped millions around the world. Talk to a professional and get to the root of the problem. You need to know the cause of the problem before you can solve it.
Good luck
2006-07-07 01:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 08:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just relax, go to the doctor, tell him whats going on and he will give you a little blue pill to try. Take two an hour before your ready. For goodness sake relax. the worst thing you can do is worry about it.
2006-07-07 01:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by iceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you're worrying too much about it,relax its not that big problem,specially at first,think of it as you two having fun together and enjoying yourselves,its not a mission you're not,you're not obligated to do anything,take your time kiss a lot touch a lot and things will be just fine.
2006-07-07 01:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by AB 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart... killing yourself will not fix the problem.. it will only cause pain and sorrow for your family and friends. Apparently you have some sort of problem and I am sure that it can be fixed with medical attention. Go to your doctor and tell him what is going on.
Perhaps you need to arouse yourself or find out what exactly gets you excited.
Don't kill yourself though.................. Be Strong!
2006-07-07 01:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey give it time its like a bicycle you have to learn and have paticance it will never come easy first time allways nervous and thinking well am i going to do it right or screw up it is ok your not the first just think before you do something crazy keep that in mind ok im not very good speller sorry
2006-07-07 01:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by blueeyed sexy blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to relax. Seriously - the more you worry about.... "it" and stress about it, the less successful you'll be. When you just relax and enjoy the moment for what it is, then there'll be nothing to worry about at all.
Oh, and if she'd ditch you for something like that, then... not worth it anyway.
2006-07-07 01:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ending your history on earth because of that is no good, divert your love and attention to something if you are afraid to re-invest to what we call friendship, there are lots of great things that you can do to help other people and please others, don't bother thinking about ending the precious gift that's given to you
2006-07-07 01:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋