i have a friend and shes having a problem with her b/f. she asked me this question and i cant answer it. when her and her b/f have sex it lasts longer when shes on him but when hes on her it doesnt last long even with foreplay. and she said when they try a second time he cant get it to work. please take this seriously. shes 20 and hes 23.
2006-07-07 01:35:44 · 14 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The first part of the question has everything to do with positioning and the angles of the penis. With her on top, the penis is virtually straight up. Now, I can't tell you if he likes it or not, but, it's might not be as stimulating and if they were doing missionary. He also might find missionary more enticing and more arousing than other positions. If they want a longer ride during missionary, try using a condom to lessen his sensations ( I guess ) or maybe some mental imaging in his part ( the old joke is thinking about baseball stats during sex. )
The second part is normal. Guys need a least 20 minutes to recharge after the hormonal release of an orgasm. Having an orgasm drops a ton of hormones in your brain that leads to that euphoric feeling. That's why it's so easy to fall asleep after an orgasm or you feel so much more relaxed after an orgasm.
Tell your friend to have fun figuring it all out.
2006-07-07 01:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by yodeladyhoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reason is, when she's on top, she controls the motions and can position her body to accept him slightly or fully, thus creating the atmosphere to make sex last longer. Sorta like teasing him along. ;-)
When he's on top, the insertion is normally full "force", creating the power to end in satisfaction quickly.
Some men unfortunately cannot have a second arousal quickly. Give it time and work up to a second round.
2006-07-07 08:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like when he is setting the tempo, he goes too fast. The solution is obvious. Let her drive. That way they are both happy. As for not working a 2nd time at 23....that sounds scary to me. I can't even imagine that. Sounds more like he doesnt want a second time, but I dont know him, so who knows?
2006-07-07 08:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by keats27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your having problems now wait till your 50 or 60 and trying to have sex it wont happen but for some reason you still feel love and excitment just being there enjoying the smell of that person feeling their skin just relax sex is kissing and other stuff too not just penis in vigina
2006-07-07 08:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a male is on female, in this position creats more pressure so man pumps with faster. Can be controlled by taking it not over mind.
2006-07-07 08:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Simply.......Khaled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to your freind to try some other postures : like side by side or go through the right way as he losts longer.
2006-07-07 08:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Krishna_B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because she sucks at being on top so he doesnt get off as quick! 10 point answer right thurr!!
2006-07-07 08:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably harder for him to insert his penis when she is on top. Maybe he doesn't have experience in that position.
2006-07-07 08:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by airfrogyto19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of men prefer the woman on top they find it more gratifying.
2006-07-07 08:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just not machines...sorry
2006-07-07 08:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋