My guy loves me.We have known eachother as family friends.Hes abroad im in his hometown.Its been 5yrs,3yrs as friends,2yrs in love.He says he loves me but is scared to meet up since he knows hell like me alot want to marry me.He honestly told me reason that he doesnt want to marry(commitment phobia).All i want to do is meet without strings attached since i feel i need to know him more keep my options open since we havent had any in person time together.How do i get it across to him i need to meet only to meet and not want commitment/marriage proposal?
2006-07-07 01:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I DID STAND HIM ONCE IN PAST im sorry it was unavoidable he said hell think of it
2006-07-07 01:41:23 · update #1
HES ALSO IN GANGS
2006-07-07 01:41:40 · update #2
Tell him that its just a meeting i feel this guy is crazily in love with u thinks ur perfect marriage material so hes scared to meet since he feels hell end up falling more in love with you and having propose marriage lol its ok tell him its just a meeting and nothing else after that wait for him to come to u given a time frame
2006-07-07 01:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have already formed some conculsions about the thought that this guy is not for you?
Love is a attitude not a feeling. Love covers and heals fear. If he has genuine love for you (or anyone else) then his "commitment phobia" is no problem.
I would have thought that being in a gang took some commitment?
Ask yourself, "what do I need" and seek to find it. I think you deserve better.
Peter
2006-07-07 01:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he has more then a commitment phobia. he doesnt sound as though he wants to meet up with you at all and he is just making excuses. i know you have been together a long time and he should know you well enough by now. i would give him a big miss and move on. if he doesnt want to listen to what you say and insists on making excuses then he has other ideas in mind.
2006-07-07 01:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 09:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by sturms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm commitment issue ??? how old is this guy ???? i think u should forget him if he cant bring up the courage to meet u just if not just to meet u and have a relationship but also to see how u look or act then he isnt worth it
2006-07-07 01:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by casey e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋