SHe has told me that she is and that I have stood right next to him in her office. She is protecting him because she dont want me to cause him to loose his job. He is still married also, and is telling her he wants out of his marriage, I dont know what he is doing but I want to make mine work.
2006-07-07 01:29:57 · 30 answers · asked by john s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ron G - you must get the best answer on this question! I repeat:
"Pimp slap that hoe !!"
- Ron G
HA HA HA HA
2006-07-07 01:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by answers999 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to know who the other guilty party is? It does not matter. Cheating is cheating no matter with whom.
Talk to your wife. Discuss the problem and see what the problem was. What is it that she is not happy about that she has to look for love outside marriage? Is it you or something else? If you know the root of the problem, then solve it between the two of you. If she does not love you anymore, so be it and let go. A short pain is better than a long torture.
2006-07-07 02:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want this to work if she told you she was cheating on you? Trust me, I have been down this road before. GET OUT before you cause your self more pain. It will only get worse from here on out. The next time she tells you she is going to the store and she is gone for awhile and you call her cell and she dont answer what is going to be the first thing that goes through your mind? Yeah, thats right. You are going to think she is cheating. You dont have to listen to any of us but once a cheater always a cheater(95% of the time) Do your self a favor and leave. You will be fine a few months down the road and life will be better than you think. Trust me.
2006-07-07 01:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do to lack of experience all i can say is if i were in this position i would sit down with my wife and tell her how i feel /felt about the situation which is that i feel that iam beeing cheated on and i dont know what i did to deserve it.I would ask my wife how we can make things work out by comming up with a plan when things get to stressed out around the house.
2006-07-07 01:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by ARTHUR M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to say that it does not matter WHO the person is just that there is obviously a bigger problem in your relationship and the first thing you and your wife need to question is wether or not you want to remain together. If so seek counseling to get over the rage and pain you probably feel. If not just move on as it does not matter who he is and will just make life more difficult for you because if you do know you will focus alot of energy on "paying him back" when in reality it is not just his fault but your wifes also she could have said no and didn't. Good luck
2006-07-07 02:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jakesmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your wife want your marriage to work? why would she protect the man that she cheated on you with if she were not still somewhat attached to him, and why would you want to make him lose his job when his job is not related to an affair? you should honestly sit and think about what you want to be with and how you should handle this situation. acting out in anger and bitterness is not an appropriate way to react to this, and it's hard not to because being cheated on is a painful experience, but it's best to give yourself some time to heal. and, if you want your marriage to work, you should focus on your marriage and seek some sort of counseling to help both of you through this problem.
2006-07-07 01:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife doesn't respect you and wants to hurt you because:
1. She's cheating and then tells you about it
2. She rubs it in your face by telling you it's with someone in her office who is also married but wants to leave his wife for her
3. She would rather you break it off then have to make the decision
4. She's waiting to see if the other guy really leaves his wife before she leaves you, in which case, you're nothing more than "sloppy seconds" to her
LEAVE HER! If she wanted to make the marriage work she would not continue cheating and she would be doing everything in her power to regain your trust.
2006-07-07 01:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Ron G and Nquizzitive....She doesn't Respect U and U should Pimp Slap the Hoe.....I feel your Pain Over 30 days I found out by moving out cuz' I suspected my wife cheating ( all the signs were in my face) & she didn't know that I was back in town one day , so I walked into my home and found her diary and calendar with her admitting times she cheated and who she was in love with. Today she sits somewhere with no job, no car, has been evicted & can't return home to Mommy and Daddy!...oh but she got the Mason with a Silver Corvette!..I repeat....Pimp Slap The Hoe!
Hang in there & don't do what I did for 2 weeks (blame yourself and stop eating...Keep ya' Head Up!)
"I'm Rick James ...Biyotch!"
2006-07-07 01:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do 2 things the first change a cheating woman you don't want that to be the mother from your children
figure out why you feel the need to now you cant kill him
ill give you more trouble than its worth it
talk discretely with your wife's boss very courteous and kind
tell him or her your problem but truly think about it
theres nothing no one can do to stop them from their affair
find out his home number and call his wife tell her whats going on
Se what she thinks
that will be the only way and if the affair doesn't stop a divorce will come in handy
2006-07-07 01:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by Roberto L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are already hurting, knowing the man is not going to make it easier. he is not the one who had a commitment to you. i am not saying that what he is doing is not wrong. all you can do is ask your wife if she wants to make your marriage work. if she does counceling would be best for both of you. if not, leave with your dignity and let her go. dont do anything that you are going to regret. though, hard to believe right now. the pain will go away and you can have a wonderful life ahead.
2006-07-07 03:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by klj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to make it work then let her know but do not seek revenge from the other guy, remember it took two for the relationship to start. Seek help from say your minister. Remember that it will take both of you wanting to make the marriage work, just one wanting it will not work.
2006-07-07 01:34:38 · answer #11 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋