Should I adopt a baby?

Answer 1

of course that will change the baby life

Answer 2

look love no offence but this is a human beings life you are plying with here, and i seriously do not thin that you should be asking this sort of question on here, i understand that some people on here give great/good honest advice etc but this is just a child you are talking about, and i would advise you to think about this decision very long and hard because bringing up a child/children is not easy at all, i mean they take up all you time and money and your life is no longer your own it is the child's also it is a permanent 24hours and 7days job and also it is not just until they become an adult because children still go running back to there mum/dad when they are adults for help/advice etc etc etc. So i am not trying to put you off the idea of adopting i am just saying that you really do need to think about it very very very long and hard it is not one them decisions that you can just make over night.ok - so good luck and if you do decide to go ahead then i hope you enjoy every moment of being a mother it is fantastic but then also draining stress full time and money consuming etc etc etc don't forget there are just as many good points as bad.

Answer 3

My girlfriend and her husband were unable to conceive and for the past 4 years have been fostering different kids. It is so sad watching them end up with their biological parents - after receiving so much care and love from my friend. Finally, this summer, they are finally able to adopt a boy they've had for 2 years. I think the adoption process is rather painful. For me personally, if I wanted to have kids, I would only want them the natural way. But I don't want children so my view is different. Do whatever you feel is best...but know that it might not be easy, and probably extremely expensive.

Answer 4

Only you know the answer to that, can you give it a good home? Can you give it love for the rest of its life?

Adoption is always favourable when you can give the baby all the love and attention it needs.

Answer 5

This isn't a decision that you should leave to a bunch of individuals, many of whom don't even know anything about the cost etc of looking after a baby. This is something to discuss with your partner, and remember that there are few babies available unless you go to third world countries.

Answer 6

Go for it, there are so many children out there waiting for a decent home. Unfortunately children in care homes have a significantly lower quality of life, they need love, family units, direction and support. Children with a loving family and routine will have the best start in life.........go for it :o)

Answer 7

if you are ready and can't have children yourself than go for it. even through people think children ruin there lives they are the best thing to happen to any one. i have 2 and enjoy every second of there company. good luck with this decision and remember that the children who are put up for adpotion really need someone to be there for them as they have no one the rely on.

Answer 8

Yes, but only if you're ages 14 to 16 and can't support yourself yet. Weirdo.

Answer 9

If you want to bring a lonely child into a loving family unit go for it.

Answer 10

mammy mammy i`m here

Yes if you know what it consists of
Then go for it
Give someone a chance in life

I wish you all the best for the future too