my boyfreind told me he loves me and will always be there for me but how am i soppose to beleive that if he can't even call i'm so desperate for a new man i signed my self up for some night line chat thing to meet a new guy anmd i think i found the one
2006-07-07 01:05:29 · 14 answers · asked by nini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh boy, I could really go on about this - but I won't.
First - if he IS your boyfriend and LOVES you ... you'd have his number. You don't.
Second - you had to call a friend to get it. Called it and he doesn't call.
Third - do you need a bulletin board to tell you.... "You are being used". If you are having sex. You're nothing more than a booty call.
Wake up, move on, and think with your head next time you get into a relationship. Move on NOW.
2006-07-07 01:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so desperate for a new man? That's a big red flag that you need to spend some time alone finding out why you "need" to be loved so desparately. Take a break from men for a while. Learn to like yourself better before you get mixed up with the wrong kind of men. You will not be happy till you figure that out.
2006-07-07 03:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by K K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear Nini,
one of the difficult things that happen sometimes is to let go someone we thought we loved.
see, you are too precious for a guy like that. believe me, he's got something hiding. why won't he give u his number? i bet you don't even know where he stays.
dear, find time and ask yourself if the two of you can have anything going if one doesn't trust one enough to share things with them.
get out of this relationship please. when you do, don't rush to enter into another one. what happens is that when we do that, we enter with unmet expectations and we desire to fulfil them in the new one.
when they are not met the way we expect, it affects the relationship and it turns into an unhappy one.
don't rush to be with the new guy. just relax, take time to know him and best of all, pray about it.
ask God to direct and guide you to his will, to his desired choice person for you.
God never makes mistakes. he will divinely connect you to the right man, in Jesus' name. just hang in there and know it's ok.
take care
2006-07-07 02:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by love w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend. I think you better look at greener pastures. In other words look for another boyfriend, 1 that will give you his phone number. There is probably something fishy if he is not.
2006-07-07 01:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dosent behave like how a boyfriend would behave, not calling, not knowing his number, having to call his friend....do you and your boyfriend ever comunicate at all?, i think this is not really a relationship and already you are desperate for another man, face it, it's over with the boyfriend, so just move on as you are.
2006-07-07 01:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've found a new one then dump the old one who, as it seems, had cut you out of circulation. If not, then start looking.
2006-07-07 01:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How was he even considered your boyfriend and u didn't even have his number, It's been time for u to move on
2006-07-07 01:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So??????????? Y du u need a boyfriend???????? If ur soo desparat then ask his friend to call him for you.How old are you anyway???????? Just telling you. Love must find you,you musn't find love
2006-07-07 01:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Cute kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is hiding something if he won't give you his number. Dump him.
2006-07-07 01:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by SiberianHusky_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Don't worry, you'll find your own match. If he wants to be out of reach, that's his loss.
2006-07-07 01:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Felici 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋