my son had a perfect attendense,and perfect grades ,i got him to school,and cared for him daily.while she was at work,her mother came to town .we had a disagreement and when i went to get my son from school she loaded all his clothes and went to grandmothers in brazil,then told me she was taking him to school next day but she went and removed him from school and her mother took my son to ky,with out us being able to say bye to him no warning to school or any notice to court or me we have joint custody.and I called her mother and she said she didn't know where he was but he was in the truck with her,and i left several messages with the family and no one let my son know i was calling for 4 days was her mother aloud to take him out of state please help me find away to get my #1 friend and buddy back where he wants to be NEED ANSWERS
2006-07-07 00:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like a kid napping. You have just as much parental rights as does your long time girl friend if youv'e got joint custody. The grandmother can be arrested for kid napping and possible child endangerment. Go to the school that your child attended and tell them that your child has been kidnapped by the old b***h and get the place where they transferred the records too. And NO she has NO right to take off with your kid. You need to call the police and do it ASAP.
2006-07-07 00:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds odd, that's for sure. Is there anything wrong with her? Mentally I mean...And I am not asking to be rude, she just sounds very weird. Well, First things first, discuss this whole problem with your boyfriend. Try not to make it sound as though you are insulting his mother, because he may get defensive. Explain in a polite way that you do not appreciate some of the things she does, and if he would be willing to tell her to stop. He most likely will agree to talk with her because I can't imagine that he is happy with the situation either. If he does not want to discuss this with his mother, then I suppose you will have to. Which is terrible because you shouldn't have to. The main thing is to be polite. She is still his mother, no matter what relationship they may have. If you can't work this out, then maybe you two should consider moving back. You don't want to deal with this for the rest of your life, unless it gets better. Good Luck with this...I know first hand how annoying Mother in laws can be!
2016-03-27 07:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have joint custody, and the child was removed without your consent from the area stipulated in the court order, she is in violation of the order and can be charged with kidnapping.Get to a police station fast. And make sure that the FBI is informed. If she crosses a state line with the child, it is a federal offense
2006-07-07 00:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Chief BaggageSmasher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is difficult to follow .. but if you are the legal father .. & you live in Canada or USA you have rights to.
If your son is in Brazil .. you may have to contact authorities there to find out what your rights are..good luck.
2006-07-07 00:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Susie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
If she were an EX-WIFE... and you had a DIVORCE decree that stipulated a radius... You'd be FINE.
But as it is... Your lack of commitment to her... has made her a FREE AGENT... and this is AMERICA... she can go wherever she pleases.
If it's that important... Move to clse to where she's going.
2006-07-07 00:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call the police, and get a lawyer ASAP!!!
2006-07-07 00:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer
2006-07-07 01:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be asking us...you should be down at the police station putting kidnapping chargest on her....
2006-07-07 00:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋