2006-07-07 00:12:14 · 15 answers · asked by nasir k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try talking it out about this problem SWEETLY but Seriously when he is in a nice, receptive mood. Since he is your husband, he surely loves you and would listen to your suggestions.
Tell him that you both must SHARE your responsibilities. Give him a few simple tasks first. Then whatever tasks you have assigned to him, let them remain undone even if he has forgotten to complete them. But don't Nag or Complain, but FIRMLY refuse to attend to them yourself. GRADUALLY he may learn to attend to them.
Hope things work out
Best of Luck!
2006-07-07 00:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It isn't anything you Can teach an adult .. someone has been looking after him too well if you know what I mean.. Maybe a parent with good intentions.
I have this theory as a parent .. the nicer you are & the more you try to make everything as easy as possible & help your son or daughter through life .. the less they appreciate you & the things you have sacrificed for them. If we are truly suppose to make them as independent as possible we have to stop "caretaking" or they will be irresponsible. We can not look after them forever.. like in some cases. Now you may have marreid someone who still thinks he needs to be looked after ... he may need counselling. When communicating to him be very clear on what your expectations are for sharing chores .. etc. If can't see his way to be an equal partner .. then you have some decisions to make yourself. Are you going to be his next caretaker?
2006-07-07 00:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Susie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scare the **** out of him, iis he too deeply in love with you and will it shake him up if you leave him. if it would you pack your bags make him beg you to stay and then tell him to get his act together or your walking. If he does not love you so then truth is its sad he does not support or love you so you just gotta move on with life(HOPE ITS NOT THE CASE THOUGH GOD BLESS YOU)
2006-07-07 00:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a *****, shoot hes a great guy! soo what hes not resonsible what are u gunna do divorce him? no! live with it, sex, a sandwich afterwards, and happilty ever after, and if ur not happy dont say a dam word. u dont have to ruin our fun
2006-07-07 00:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by mycariscoolerthenurs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't teach an old dog new tricks, or you knew the job was dangerous when you took it.
2006-07-07 00:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him abt his character that u cannot tolerate. do it nicely and make him feel loved still.. i hope god blesses u and gives u a hapy life wid him
2006-07-07 03:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by damain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don t do anything at his place, and then show him the consequences of his irresponsibility.
make it clear for him , if he is not gonna do stuff nobody will do it at his place
2006-07-07 00:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Leeloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the break up
u will get ideas hehe
2006-07-07 00:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by Val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life with such men is hard, you will be soon old.
if that dont hurt u leave him. ( divorce)
2006-07-07 00:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll... at this age its difficult to teach him to be responsible.
2006-07-07 00:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by relaxplease2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋