I dont know why that is but if you really dont want to and its stressing you out dont do it.
If you mean when u r having sex it's painful it could be a sign of something wrong with you internally -- check it out with the gp
2006-07-07 00:08:44
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answered by Scatty 6
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I really would want to be of help to you but what do you actually mean? Do you have pain at just the thought of him wanting to have sex or on actual penetration. Assuming it is pain on penetration, the reasons could be many. You will need to discuss this with your GP or at a well womens clinic to determine whether it is because you are not aroused enough, whether you need more lubrication, whether he is too rough or whether there are actual physical reasons for your pain. You may note that i do not include the size of his manhood. This is because if you are aroused enough, the vagina is designed to accomodate............just think about it, a whole baby can come out of there. Some pelvic inflamations can cause pain during intercourse and other reasons such as circumcision may be the reason. I wish i could consult with you in order to sign post you to the right sources for help. You can get in touch at naadu64@hotmail.co.uk
2006-07-07 10:41:15
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answered by Naadu64 2
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What do you mean you feel pain? When you're having sex? That can happen. It might be a mismatch in size or you just might need to try a different position. Relax as well. Sex will hurt if you don't relax. Just have some fun!
2006-07-07 12:02:56
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answered by orione16 3
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You shouldn't feel pain if he WANTS to have sex with you, you would feel pain if he DID have sex with you, maybe pressure is what you are feeling.
2006-07-07 07:07:54
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answered by nick m 4
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i think you are not ready for it or you had it for the first time. I have heard that for first time everyone seems pain and guilty.
if it continues then better consult ur boy friend.
2006-07-07 07:21:18
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answered by sap444333222111 2
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hm... your question was kind of broad... but i'm going to try to answer it anyway. if you're talking about mentally in pain then i think that you're not ready for it. that's why you're in pain mentally. if you're in pain physically then hm... i think that your body is telling you no LOL. i don't know the exact truth but what do you think? only you would/could tell
2006-07-07 07:08:45
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answered by dorkydork 2
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What kind of question is this! U feel pain when your boyfriend sticks it!
2006-07-07 17:54:30
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answered by eholguin788402004 2
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Because it is wrong to have sex before marriage, that is why your body is protesting. Pls dont force yourself, you may land in serious trouble: HIV, unwanted pregnancy, complications following abortion etc.
2006-07-07 07:18:42
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answered by Preciousandhonest 2
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you could have an infection especial if there is blood with the pain, then he could be too large for you.i would check with my ob\gyn first and rule out the infection first.
2006-07-07 07:08:34
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answered by browneyedgirl 2
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it may be because of some infection in your genital area. assess it properly with other symptoms.
it can be due to lack of foreplay making it difficult for entry. u can use lube for that.
in extreme case, your opening itself may be small due to some medical problem. see the doc.
2006-07-07 07:22:03
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answered by Kumar 5
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