MY boyfriend and I are monogamous and have both been tested for stds. We started barebacking a while back and I was wondering how popular it is. I know other couples that don't just because it's cleaner and less of a hassel to use a condom. Do you bareback?
2006-07-05 23:57:56 · 18 answers · asked by stevepuff19 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Though I think barebacking is more common with those of us that are in longtermed (monogamous) type relationships compaired to those that are seeking a casual sexual encounters in both the heterosexual and homosexual world .
I personaly have never had sex with anyone in 35 years that I thought required a condom . Its my opinion if you even have the slightest thought or dought of having to use a condom with the person your about to have a sexual relationship with (unless the other person desires it ) then the sexual relationship should NOT happen in the first place ! !
There are to many people in the world that think sex is something that is freely given to anybody, at any time , anywhere , this should not be happening !! This seems to be so common now days all over the internet . People think ok now we are friends lets have sex ... WRONG !
Theres more to life and any type of a relationship than just haveing sex with anyone and everyone . Get to know the real person before you jump in the sack ........then you won't need a condom and you both can enjoy it bareback !
2006-07-06 01:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by nygayart 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Never been with a partner that long. I only barebacked twice. Once because it fell off, the other time the guy took it off and didn't tell me. Both of those incidents were years ago and I have since tested negative.
No I don't bareback and I don't think I ever will.
2006-07-06 10:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The whole question of going "bareback" or having anal sex without a condom is a tough one. Of course you want to trust your lover and want him to trust you. But statistically, gay couples are often broked up by infidelity.
I would think you'd want to be together and monogamous for some signifigant period of time (year/years?) before you ventured here. But now that you've gone that way, how do you go back without saying either that you don't trust him, or that you condone cheating?
Tough Question! Good luck.
2006-07-06 08:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I bareback and I never use a condom with oral.
2006-07-06 09:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nascar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do!
But only when I am involved in a monogamous relationship and routinely get tested.
2006-07-06 07:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by AnthonyPaul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely bare back.. my boyfriedn and I were rigoressly tested for stds, and are neg. Sex w/o a condem feels unbelievably better, that we will never go back to condoms. Even with the occasional mess, its sooo ******* worth it. We love it, and we love c*ming in each other too... it sooo hot and intimate.
2006-07-07 10:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by jmk 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't stand to wear a condom. This is one reason I am not in to anal sex too dangerous. I will frot and do oral and that only with those I know are not promiscuous. IE other g0ys like me.
2006-07-06 11:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My partner and I bareback, we have been together for years.
2006-07-06 08:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly..... nothing better....
but gosh so dangerous.... if you guys trust each other.... you feel comfortable with it, knowing the risks....
you guys can have no more fun than goin bare....... it is very common actually, thus the spread of many stds.....
can I watch?.... hehehe
2006-07-06 08:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by mallard guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. I understand that those of you younger than I, 37, may never have seen your friends have horrible, painful diseases attributed to AIDS, and die slow deaths. I have. Please, use a condom.
2006-07-06 09:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋