My ex told me that he had been having sex with a friend of his,14years old daughter, I was livid, this amgost other reasons we split. I was so appaulad by his confession, I eventually told his friends wife. She confronted my ex, he told her all sorts of lies to discredit me, now they all think i was just lying to get even with my ex, as we split up badly. I never lied i just told the truth as he told it too me, as I was concerned for the girls safety. What do I do now?
2006-07-05 23:41:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They did ask the girl, she denied it, i guess she was scared, as to being a virgin, she hadnt been that for some time.
2006-07-05 23:48:14 · update #1
I have spoken to my ex and he claims, the incidnets never happened, it was all a nasty statement on his behalf to hurt me. What kind of man is he? Either way, he is sick?
2006-07-05 23:52:11 · update #2
Although most of the stuff was said face to face, he did send me a text saying I am sorry, i got into "grey areas" with her!!! Do you think I should send the text to the girls mother or just leave it now?
2006-07-05 23:58:50 · update #3
Your job is to speak the truth. Once you have done that, move on with your life, you cannot change what others may falsely believe about you. The more you try to defend yourself, the more suspicious they will be. The truth will come out in its own time. This may be a blessing in disguise for you. Some battles are not worth fighting for. Save your energy to find your true special someone as you get on with your life. Leave the past behind, the wounds will heal with time. Let your unpleasant past be covered by a much more pleasant future. Look forward, not backward. Don't waste anymore of your precious life.
2006-07-06 00:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by ideaquest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you ask the young girl herself, in some country an adult having sex with a minor it's call statutory rape; for now do not say a word to anyone,because when a couple split people take side, you will be surprise to found out who your real friends are.
2006-07-06 06:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a step back and look at the situation. if your ex is as nasty as you say, you might consider that he lied to you about the sex with the 14 yr old in the first place. set you up so no one will believe you. not much you can do with no proof except document and date so if it comes up again you have something to use
2006-07-06 06:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You done your bit, now leave them to it. The truth always comes out in the end and eventually the feds will get a hold of your paedophile ex.
2006-07-06 06:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by elwel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ran your mouth trying to get him into trouble.
Not out of concern for the girls safety.
If he was so dangerous you wouldnt have been with him.
Just go away. The damage is done.
2006-07-06 06:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You contact the police and the DA. This child is being abused and I don't care how grown up she appears. She needs a hero and you are it. Act now.
2006-07-06 06:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a tough one, it can be true or just pulling your leg, the way you reacted was normal.
l but during the interogation it could have been easily understandble if he did or not.
but there are a lot of your Ex type out there
2006-07-06 06:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let this bunch of losers go, the truth always comes out. What comes around goes around!
2006-07-06 06:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by kelly Speedgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safety ot revenge? Was she harmed? and if your going to fall back on the fact that it is illegal....one that would depend on the state and two why didnt you report it to the athorites?...I think you were trying to get even obviously.
2006-07-06 06:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by djmantx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your Ex, his friend and family members are people you should even associate yourself with. Keep away from them and their evil will live among them.
2006-07-06 06:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by abuo l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋