2006-07-05 23:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Life is synonymous to risk. You can't escape it. You just can't. If you have not started risking, then maybe you have not started living either. The chances of failing - this is what makes life better. Otherwise, if you don't take risks, then you'll end up one day thinking of the times that you have wasted, and then you'll say to yourself, "If only..."
Don't be afraid of risks. Even though you have chances of failing, always remember that you also have chances of succeeding...
2006-07-05 23:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by athame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie are you saying that you didn't go to school everyday during the week? Please explain. You said that you were locked in the basement from Monday through Friday and would be let out on Friday----at what time? When did your dad come home? Why did your step mom commit suicide? I'm sorry but unfortunately I am stuck on these details and need them answered first. @Aggie---Umm Aggie--calm down!! She was responding to my question. You DO see that her response is an edit don't you? You're completely wrong so Please Stop! Sheesh! @Meduss99 and more importantly---thank you for providing the additional details as this helps the situation make much more sense. I am sooooo sorry that this happened to you :( There are some really f'd up people in this world and it is so awful that you were so hurt!! sorry :( I know it might not seem like it, but the fact that you are saying something about it is the first step to show that you are healing!! Something of this magnitude however is not something that you can do all on your own. You are going to need to talk to your parents, you're going to need to talk to a counselor, and it will help you to talk to other people who've experienced similar situations yet are okay right now. there are too many unresolved issues and you can not go through this alone. PLEASE tell your mom and tell her that you need her to be there to tell your dad too. As a side note---a family friend had her step brother rape her too. She held it in so long and was sad much longer than she had to be. Once she told, her parents (real parents) got her help, the step brother was handled by the judicial system, and she is now a happy young lady!!!!!! Good luck sweetie and make 2010 your year to release this secret to your parents and the authorities!!!!!
2016-03-27 05:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fee lit is depression or similar, see a shrink.
Otherwise, try small changes. Its not that tough to change small things about yourself. Sequence is:
Thoughts become
Actions create
Habits build
Character
If you can modify a particular action for a couple of months, it will become a habit and part of your character without the need to continually and consciously think of taking that action.
As time goes on, you can tackle bigger changes and will gain confidence from success.
2006-07-05 23:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by schester3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are not happy maybe you are going to have to try and take a risk and find how and what will make you happy...change sometimes is real good.. and change sometimes does not always just make you happier either.. really think about what you want and how you can get results and if you think you will be better off...good luck and hope you realize what it is you want and try to get that to happen...
2006-07-05 23:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All things worth while, involve risk.
Often times, the things with the greatest risk, produce the best result.
That's just the way it is. Change is inevitable.
2006-07-05 23:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, you dont have to think too long..just take a deep breath and just do it..challenge yourself. if u do something that even u might not expected..reward yourself..But first of all u need is to be happy in what u are doing.if not start to change.dont worry to take risk.nothing will happen..it wont affect global economy or something..yeterday is nothing.look on to be better person today and even more tomorrow and day after.
2006-07-05 23:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by nurul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see not everyone is meant to take risks! you can still get things in life without taking risks..however, with risks, the rewards are better and so the temptation lies there
2006-07-05 23:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead , take every risk u would face
2006-07-05 23:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Rashil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult a good doctor.
2006-07-05 23:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by fmt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to learn to push yourself take challenges but sounds like you know that already so i dont know how to help you.
2006-07-05 23:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋