lol!..she tells me everyday how i wrekced her life and how everything would be just alright if i wasnt alive...today she told me in my face...''You Were The Worst Acident of my Life'' If i could turn back time i wish i could have had aborton''....those words from your own Mother kinda makes you loney...i'm lonney because my dad died when i was 4 and..my moms bf beat her up when i was 17 so i got tired of him doing that to my mom...every night my skin would cringe with every shout my mom made until one day i got pissed off...i ended up breaking th guys back with a baseball bat....i kinda think i saved my mom from a very unhappy future...but now she treats me like sh1t so...ya..What should i do? i dont wana hurt her in any Verbal words i dun mean please help!
O(¬_¬)o P.s she wants to disown me...lol..wtf
2006-07-05 23:07:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Uhhh...yeah...The Whole talkin to physco mom doesnt work i tried it.....she ended up locking me out the house i had to sleep in the dogs house for 2 days... -.-
2006-07-05 23:15:56 · update #1
Oh kid; what a pickle. Um, right, first off: ignore what she said. Ok? *Everyone* says dumb sh*t when we're upset- mine used to tell me 'damn you, damn you to hell'. Often. Lol, but just recently I passed my college maths exam with a pass mark of 90%. A clear 9% above the next highest student. Yea, ignore what she said. She didn't mean it. Mine, and maybe your's too, took all kinds of drugs from the doctor. So she was going through a hard time herself. They still feed us and all.
You're a good kid deep down and you'll do fine.
2006-07-05 23:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by smile4763 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask your Mom if you can talk to her like two adults and find out what it is that she doesn't like about you. If she's honest it may not be you but the lifestyle she's been forced into since your Dad died. Do you have a job? Perhaps if you worked and brought some money in it may help. If that;'s the problem and you're still at school could she qualify for Welfare? You don't say if you have brothers or sisters. Does she treat them the same? Look at yourself. You talk about violence in your past. Do you need to modify your behavior? Have you relatives you could stay with for a while until things calm down? Meanwhile a session of counseling with a trained family specialist might help. Tell your Mom that you love her and want to sort things out. Unless your past actions have made her hate you then I'm sure that, deep down, she really does love you. Don't forget that you didn't ask to be born so your being here is the fault of her and your father. Does she need another boyfriend? If so tell her to make sure he is the right type of person to integrate into your family and not a drinker, drug user or violent person. If none of this works consider getting your own place and starting a fresh life.
2006-07-06 06:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by quatt47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gosh it's so critical, try talking to her what the problem is & try solving it too. then too if she doesn't reply leave everything to herself . listen it's kind of freaky to say but adults rarely talk about their woes & think that we're too small to understand , you do whatever you can do from your part like helping in household chores, making her a nice hot chocolate when she's stressed out etc.
to be honest leave this to her own . Nothing new even when my mom's angry she says tat wish i was never born & stuffs like that.think about it your mom's feeling really isolated , if she really wanted to disown you then she'd have already thrown you out, i know it's easy to do talk the talk, but this is what life is . only the fittest survives
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-06 06:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Truly Madly Deeply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, I see some mixed emotions here sadness thrown in with laughter (lol), yes counseling would be good or to move from your mom's home.
2006-07-06 06:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you've had a very tough life, if you can, you should try to talk to her, tell her how you feel! if she still acts in the same manner, give her her space, she'll eventually need you!
2006-07-06 06:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by ••Bubbles•• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she evidently liked getting beat up. i would say counseling for u both, but maybe u need to move out.
2006-07-06 06:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by koifishlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY! sleeping in dog houses is fun ^_^
2006-07-06 06:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try go counselling with your mum..
2006-07-06 06:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa..idk....thanks for tha points tho!
2006-07-06 06:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋