a fight with an ex friend?

Question

i am into a fight with my ex friend...the reason of our conflict? she and the rest of my ex friends told me that they hate cause i'm always in a hurry to go upstairs and attend to my classes...and they told me that i'm taking away one of their friend from them...THAT'S IT!!!!!!duh? but i think there is a deeper reason to that...can it be jealousy???to make things worst, i'm in my third year in highschool..andone of that ex friend of mine is my classmate...! i started to make friends with some of my clssmates and we get along together for at least 2 days..but, after 2 days, i feel like there is a gap between us..and, most often, i would see them with my ex friend who's now my enemy...they're always together while i'm alone..i dunno what to do...is it possible that that ex friend of mine spreaded some negative and lies about me to my new friends? i feel awkward whenever i talk to them...i feel like they are hiding something from me..and all their smiles to me are fake...

Answer 1

YOU SHOULD JUST IGNORE THEM BECAUSE YOU GO TO SCHOOL FOR AN EDUCATION NOT FOR THEM. AS LONG AS THEY SEE THIS IS BOTHERING YOU THEY WILL CONTINUE TO DO IT AND WHEN THEY SEE YOU COULD CARE LESS ABOUT THEM AND WHAT THEY ARE DOING IT THEY WILL STOP BECAUSE THEY WILL FEEL SO STUPID

Answer 2

What a raw deal. Okay that is total crap something deeper definately. It is possible she said something negative about you and the only thing you can do is BE YOURSELF. Don't go around all paranoid about what someone might be saying live your life the way you want to without worrying about them. If the new folks you talk to see you day in day out some silly rumor will fade ( especially if you ignore her and she's the one saying all the crappy stuff it'll come around and bite her in the butt) Only if you catch her talking about you confront her about it. It's all high school crud and will be over soon I imagine it's awful now. Living well is the best revenge and look into afterschool or extracarricular programs you can meet other friends at. College will be here before you know it so just B-yourself and have no worries

Answer 3

True friends are very rare to find only lucky person can find them...
i think, i agree with your though that your ex friends might be very jealousy on you and have spreaded some negative to your new friend or they have hiding something from you.

You have to try to disscuss with them althought it may hurt your feelings but try to find out what's things make them hate you Ask them to tell you honestly, ask them maybe you have done something wrong or anything that have irritated them but you didn't relize. If there is...ask their apologize.

But if you have done your best to make clear all the missunderstanding but they still just like that...means you have to forget about them, dont feel sorry and up set ..they are not worthy to be your friends. Be patient...someday you will find ssomeone who really loves you and be your true friends.

Good Luck!!

Answer 4

True friends are hard to find nowadays. Going to school is for knowledge. So advice you to concentrate more on your study rather that worrying this type of problems.
You will meet more friends once you start to join the working class and you will have plenty of chance to meet other friends

Answer 5

First off, anyone who knows you and belives the lies? NOT your friend. At this time in your life, true friendship is rare because it takes maturity and empathy to be a good friend.

Answer 6

do not be paranoid abot these stuffs...so what if they say something about you? if it is true then do sonthing about it. if it is not true then just ignore it. it is better to know real friends than to be with some users.

Answer 7

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