2006-07-05 21:10:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Disagreements are okay. Infact, it keeps a relationship healthy, but you can go too far. Fighting a lot isn't good. Especially since you two are far away from each other. There is already a huge amount of insecurities to deal with when going into a long distance relationship. You wonder if they're staying true to you, if they'll fall in love with someone else...ect. You both need to be spending your time building your love and trust for one another rather than tearing down the foundation that you've worked to piece together. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-07-05 21:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by J.D M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much is a lot? Do you fight every time you're together or every time you talk? What do you fight about; big stuff or all little stuff? To me, if you fight about little stuff a great deal there is something else that's fueling the fire. When major things are wrong it's easier to fight about stuff that doesn't matter, but that never resolves the big issues.
It takes a lot of communication for long distance relationships to work well; helps to be open and honest with each other. Healthy to fight, just not all the time. Good luck to you both.
2006-07-05 21:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cause some believe that it helps because it is like a source of love but in a different way but how you know if its to much if he hits you but i know people that fight every day but the fighting makes there relationships stronger so i guess it ain't a relationship unless you fight.
2006-07-05 21:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am at the same situation. me and my fiancée live in different continents. We fight A LOT. We don't talk for month. But I'm still hers. Things will change when you'll unite in marriage.
2006-07-05 22:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In what you wrote, you've in reality kicked him out 5 or 6 circumstances interior of both years you've lived together! What element of "this isn't operating" are not you getting? this isn't a courting! this can be a drama crammed circus! As for forgiveness........certain, i imagine you should forgive him as long as you completely understand what forgiveness ability and does not advise! It does not advise "it really is okay"! It does not advise believe! It does not advise that you ignore and it may not advise fix of the courting. It signifies that you agree for that what befell, befell and that you relinquish your excellent to get even or use it adversarial to him. as long as you've faith your lack of peace, exhilaration and happiness is somebody else's fault, you isn't waiting to conquer this and it in reality places you in a kind of bondage. Forgiveness is extra on your benefit than his. it really is not about what he advantages. Soooo, i'd forgive him and then i'd kick him out completely!!! In each and every of the circumstances you've taken him lower back and tried lower back, why may the seventh or eighth or 10th or twentieth time be any different. you may o.k. love him yet from time to time loving someone ability understanding even as to enable them bypass. this isn't a healthful courting. it really is not a competent courting. you're dropping your self in each and every of the drama and it really is wearing you down. it really is not rocket technological know-how to do not ignore that this isn't the right guy for you. walk faraway from the begging and crying and grovelling. you comprehend from previous journey that it does not advise some thing or replace some thing. previous behaviour is a really darn reliable indicator of destiny behaviour and also you fairly opt to get out of this mess.
2016-11-01 07:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. This was the way my last relationship started and we didn't stay married but 6.5 years! He was first verbally abusive for several years and later it turned to physical abuse.
2006-07-05 21:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because you guys stay far from each other and you guys probley dont get to see each other a lot so i whould say try to work things out and you guys try to move somewhere close to each other.
2006-07-05 21:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by brat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is
it is normal to have a few spats in ones relationship
2006-07-05 21:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by my_bleww_eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me n my fiance have been fighting since 4 yrs now.....still we dont want to end this relation....its perfectly ok ...
2006-07-05 21:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love ur bf i think it is not problem,but for severer years i don't know,maybe it is not good for ur relationship
2006-07-05 21:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋