i have a nice boyfriend right now... and a Great guy friend... the other night i found out that my grandmother was being hospitalized... i was really upset... so i called my guy friend and he talked to me all night long.... i told my boyfriend the next day and he was mad that i didnt call him... he even said that i have feeling for my friend that relate to being more than just friends... but im not exactly sure... i really do love my friend... but is it more than being friends? please help... my boyfriend's comment has opened my eyes... but what should i do... i dont think my friend likes me more than that.... ugh.. im confused..
2006-07-05 20:49:48 · 11 answers · asked by making mistakes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hm...yr move (calling friend intead yr bf) should make U think already,it means u feel more comfotable with yr friend and u trust him more then yr bf... And im not surprised yr bf was pissed...Imagine if it was the opposite situation and it happened 2yr bf ,and he called his best female friend and talked 2her whole night,would u be happy? ... Im not judging U or trying 2make you feel bad,dont misunderstand me,what im trying 2 tell You that U should really open yr eyes lil more,maybe u really love yr friend and didnt realise that yet? Good luck!!!
I hope yr mummy feeling better!
2006-07-05 21:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you feel more comfortable speaking with your friend than your boyfriend. Friends are forever, and relationships come and go. I think your friend was just there for you when you needed him, and that made your friendship go up a notch. You have more trust, more comfort and more compassion, therefore yes, your feelings for him go up as well. Tell your man to deal with it. (If you date your friend it could be great, or you could lose the friendship forever. Best bet, make a pact, name an age and say if both of you aren't married then you'll marry each other. Then you'll know if he has some interest in you, like you might have for him.)
2006-07-06 03:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u did a mistake by callin ur guy frnd n makin ur bf mad bt the thin is may b u r much comfortable talkin with ur guy frnd than ur bf u sud ask this question frm ur self bout whom u dream all the day bt the point is if ur guy frnd dnt like u more than frnd then its nt healthy 2 risk ur relationship with ya bf if u feally love him simply i really dnt think u r in love wity ur guy frnd bt u r quite free n comfortable in that relationship coz u no him 4 so long i think u shud b more open 2 ur bf bt gal if u really thinks u love ur bf pls never do that mistake again wich will hurt 3 of u dont make this love a triangle
2006-07-06 04:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_angle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a word to the wise your boyfriend is jealous
also many females fel more comfortable talking to their guy friends rather then their BF why i dont know for example ive had many chick friends and they tell me everything like if i were their GF they told me from family problem to relationship to even their monthly frien issues lol thishelp me cause i want to be a phychologist but anyway now that i have my GF she talks o me but she also talk to one of her guy friend i ask her to talk to me but she says that its weir now that im going out with her even thought shesone of the girl that used to tell me everything anyway its normal you BF just want YOU to communicate and yes a little jealous too
2006-07-06 04:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very disrespectfull of your boyfriend to put that preasure on you right after your grandmother was hospitalized...but id you really like this friend of yours...dump your boyfriend and go out with your guy friend...its as simple as that.
2006-07-06 04:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by kenzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi......i think u like your guyfriend more then your boyfriend
because if things were otherwise u would have called your boyfriend.......but be careful before you reveal your feelings to him......try giving some hints,if he responds to them....gr8...go ahead....but if he doesnt....dont take a step further..otherwise your life'll be in a mess.....no friend .....no boyfriend
2006-07-06 04:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by sweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two are really good, close friends, then leave it at that, i think your bf jus got carried away, if you want to keep your bf and yr friend, then jus tell yr bf that u gyz are friends, and wen sumthin lik that happens, sumtimz friends com first.
2006-07-07 08:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by La_Di_Da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart!
2006-07-06 04:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur boy friend is cool make himdunderstand
2006-07-06 03:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by goodboy5005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them both. date me instead.
2006-07-06 03:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by darksoulman20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋