2006-07-05 20:48:34 · 25 answers · asked by the_zmen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
have kids so divorce is out i cant stand to be away from them and she would fight me for them! also told her a year ago that if we didnt have sex i would start looking else where and im still waiting. she said sex is not a part of marriage i was baffled by that answere
2006-07-05 21:11:25 · update #1
sex is a part of a marriage! she sounds horrible! I totally understand why you would want to got out and look for sex. Have you tried asking her to counseling? Talk to a lawyer and be real strong about fighting for those kids.While I know sex is the issue, please don't forget about your children, let them know always that you care about them.
2006-07-06 19:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by curly98 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No!
You get out of your marriage before you do it but because you don't want to,do find out the reasons why your spouse doesn't want to have sex. Perhaps, you might be the reason or because at certain age a woman doesn't have the urge to do it.
Take it from her answer that marriage is not all about sex. It has something to do with relationships, nurturing and being nurtured. It has something to do with LOVE and trust.
2006-07-06 04:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by jbernz16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO not if your spouse doesn't want you to. go see a marriage councelor about the issue..If you must have sexual pleasure try movies, masturbation...get creative. We can control our sex drives. start meditating or some spirital activity. But if all that doesn't work and you want to risk loosing your wife and damaging your relationship more than by all means go for it, just know someone will get hurt you will feel quilty and please use a condom
2006-07-06 03:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by feather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people have moral and ethical reasons why this is NOT okay. In this case I would say to get a divorce and marry someone who does want to have sex.
2006-07-06 03:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by compendious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you not understand about wedding vows? You became unified to be one yet just because your spouse doesn't want to have sex you become lusty for others? For better or worse til death do you part. Hmmmmmmmmm go figure...
2006-07-06 03:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I would yes. Isn't that kinda like an unspoken thing, that you two have sex? I would tell her that if she ain't giving it up then you will be forced to look elsewhere and see what she says. She may be cool with it, maybe she just doesn't want to have sex with YOU? (Sorry)
2006-07-06 03:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must have a reason for not having sex with u. know what it is first before u have sex with others.
2006-07-06 04:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
do you remember the vows of marriage? .......the being faithful to each other? Ring a bell?
Also if your wife reads this.....how is she keeping her vows?
Same your marriage....you both have to give.
Maybe time to move on?
2006-07-06 03:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you gotta leave her or do without. Once you start getting it on the side you probably won't want to stay anyway.
2006-07-06 04:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce, then find a woman who loves to make you happy in the bedroom and everywhere else
2006-07-06 03:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋