When I was young and naive I would say yes, now I would say no, it's just an excuse to test the waters with another guy. Most guys don't want to be friends with a girl unless they're attracted to her in one way or another. What do you think?
2006-07-05 20:42:14 · 11 answers · asked by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-07-05 20:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by rattwagon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that we all should have as many friends as we want in life. That if trust exists between people then this is never an issue.
Obviously in your case you do not have this trust. Not having trust makes you not trust her, and or be jealous.
The other thing you need is respect. If you respect someone you do not think they have ulterior motives when they do something, again, you do not respect the lady, since you feel she has an ulterior motive if she has a friend.
Before you can truly have a firm and honest relationship with someone you have to trust and respect the person. As do they you of course.
2006-07-06 03:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u trust her and has she ever done anything to make u think that u cant trust her? The real question is how do you feel about this guy friend of hers? Chances he might be making moves on your girl and she might deny that because shes tryin to be nice about the whole thing. Tell her to keep it on a friendship bases only or keep the distance between them 2. Before things get out of hand!!!
2006-07-06 03:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, the trouble is that women genuinely do want guy friends, but guys can never leave it at that. A guy will only ever want to be a friend with a girl that he is attracted to.
2006-07-06 03:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by spiegy2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just think you should trust her you shouldnt pay no mind to the other guys because she is going out with you and not with them when i was with my ex he wouldnt trust me hell always say man that guy likes you your just blind that you cant see it or, they are not your real friends they are just trying to get with you etc and that affected our relationship ALOT and yes most turned out liking me and trying to get with me but i turned them down. if she really loves you shell do the same and if she doesnt then she just isnt the one for you but until trust her and let her have her friends because it can end up ruining ur relationship if u think she is just testing other guys etc best wishes
2006-07-06 03:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by sexychica805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your girlfriend invite to what ever there doing? does she tell you before hand what her plans are and are you invited to show up and join them. I think it is possible but don't be foolish and think it dosent happen because brother it happens alot! But one thing to think about if it is true , you have a trust worthy girl and that's what we all should be so give her some rope but be there so she dosent hang herself!
2006-07-06 03:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by storm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a trusting, loving relationship with your partner, then whether she has friends of the opposite sex shouldn't be worrisome you. I am a male, and I have only platonic relationships with my lady friends, and their mates don't have any worries, although I don't actually go out on "dates" with them, we do talk and get along famously.
2006-07-06 03:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree tell her to get rid of her guy frein d or youll dump her ...............if you dont want to be so harsh ask her if you can meet him se how she reacts and see what kind of guy he is whe you see him
2006-07-06 03:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe you should becasue you have to have trust in her!!! and if you have no trust in herv you should not even be with her!
2006-07-06 03:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn Lorraine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...sucka.........while they are doing some wild mattress dancing your at home woundering........hmmmmmmm............shes probably getting what she has been.....doing your job correctly?
2006-07-06 03:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋