will it matter if she doesnt know abt this?the nanny is almost ready u can say .all my guy pals say dig in ,but i feel a vague from of apprehension.what do i do .my kids r 5 and 10
2006-07-05 20:38:01 · 5 answers · asked by jerry t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good for you. You have a good conscience. That is the feeling of apprehension, warning you against making a big mistake.
Temptations always feel irresistible. That's why they are temptations. But that doesn't mean you really want something. It's just temporarily appealing.
Do yourself a huge favor and get a new--older--nanny. If you really want your marriage intact, tell your wife about your temptation. She'll help take care of that for you.
You will come to regret it if you give in. You will never be able to take back the hurt you've inflicted. The truth always comes out.
I promise you, sex is not better with someone else just because he or she is younger and prettier.
A momentary lapse will bring a lifetime of pain to your entire family. These people are your flesh and blood. You are their leader. Do the right thing.
Consider yourself forewarned.
2006-07-05 20:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by hope03 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have any sense of love for your wife, then don't do it. Sure she won't know, for now at least. What happens when she does? Why risk a potential divorce/separation (which puts the kids in a horrible position also) for momentary fulfillment?
2006-07-06 03:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it buddy. You'll regret later. And u r saying u have got kids
2006-07-06 03:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by googly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it, if ur wife finds out it will end it divorce and her getn sent away
2006-07-06 03:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stray... you'll regret it later...
2006-07-06 03:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋