I believe you need to test the goods first, otherwise you could be stuck with a frigid wife/husband.
2006-07-05 20:34:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you wait until marriage to have sex you dont know if you sexually compatible but if you're trully in love it doesnt matter sex is sex skill comes from practice and you'll the knowledge that you were the only one who touched her/him. if you wait you give each other gift that you can only give once.
2006-07-05 21:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by s_n_f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still take the risk and jump in the air. But it's safer to take a test drive before.
Some people will tell you that it's not important, some other will tell you to do it first. Both are right. But both can fail. It depends.
You can test the waters by doing some of the "other stuff" and leave intercourse for the after marriage. You'll know if you're sexually compatible
2006-07-06 05:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test the Goods???? That statement makes you sound worse than Frigid! Love comes First! You can tell whether your mate is "Frigid" or not, without "Testing the Goods" first. That's the Joy and Anticipation of the "Wedding Night."
2006-07-06 03:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by ~Terr~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to not have sex until married, and if the people involved are in touch with themselves and really in love, then sex, which is only one facet of a good relationship will not be a problem. This situation is a rarity of course, at least in this Hemisphere, and I am not saying that couples shouldn't have sex before marriage, but I know of several couples who have held off until marriage, and they are doing fine. Conversely, I know lots of couples who had sex before hand, and they are not together any more, so having sex beforehand doesn't make the marriage better or worse.
2006-07-06 03:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a mother and married for more than two years. I married a man whom I first saw in my wedding day (really!), its a parental marriage. At first its very awkward because I don't really know him, hes character, everything, but though hes my relative,ive never seen him in my entire single years. But we're very much compatible in all aspect now, we're very much in love and we have lots in common. so don't worry, whats important is you love each other, that what matters most. Good Luck!
2006-07-06 03:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by shaznay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a possiblity... But if two people love each other sexual compatiblity is something that can evolve over time. Not everyone is great the first time around... Openness and willingness to talk and try different things is what makes you compatible....
2006-07-06 03:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by htchrist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is not ever thing to everybody how does it go that is supposed to be the most precious gift that you can ever give your wife/husband i would want my daughter and boys to wait until they get married good luck God Bless
2006-07-06 08:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by bay_robin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eh well, sex isn't the most important thing to some people.
2006-07-06 03:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by MB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats why you should test drive it first
2006-07-06 03:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont
2006-07-06 03:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋