get pregnat so I dont know what to do
2006-07-05 20:16:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think she needs to talk to her parents. They can help her decide what she truly wants. You seem very self concerned about the fact that you want a child and can't have one. The real issue here is that a CHILD may be pregnant.
2006-07-05 20:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this one is one that is a hard decision. look at it from different points of view. if you are willing to take a child that is not yours, you will still feel closer to this child than any other adopted child. It would turn a child that is not wanted into a child that is taken care of. The foster system is hard for a child. It is going to be hard for her to let go of her child when she has been prego with it for nine months? there is a chance. do you want to go through the heartache of her changing her mind. What if she wants the child to know later in life that she is the baby's mother?
I guess I am just giving you alot to think about and consider. you are still very young yourself to have a baby, no offense, I had my first one at 19 and it is not easy. I would let her know that you are thinking about it and that you would like her to think about it more. Both of you could write down the options and benefits and downers of how all of this could effect you. ask her to decide further in the pregnancy, there are many people that would like to adopt a baby, even if you do not. good luck with all of this.
2006-07-05 20:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink she is partly irresponsible for getting pregnate but partly responsible for giving the child to someone who can actually take care of a child. accept the child so she/he will still know who the birth mother is when she/he grows older. and u will not be without someone (other than ur husband) to love as/like your own child
2006-07-05 20:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do her parents know about this? I think that she needs to get tested to see if she is and you all should go from there. It may be a bit weird if you do take the child and you have to someday say well this is really your mom not you cousin.
2006-07-05 20:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take the kid, its not ur responsibility
if she is that messed up in the head 2 try and get pregnant then she needs to worry about the reprecussions
2006-07-05 20:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by tampabay5400 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off all somebody should have whooped her lil a s s for that and give it up for adoption if u wnat the kid and ready for the ressposibility do it but when she gets 18 whos gonner tell her the truth? i would have whooped that lil...whoo!! where are her parents they need 2 let their hand meet her butt and its the mothers decison really
2006-07-06 10:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Hola. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is a 12 year old pregnant
2006-07-06 05:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by c1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be dangeros to her if she gives birth to a child because she is not yet mutured
2006-07-05 20:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by chandu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would take the baby for her seeing as it sounds like she wants u to have the baby and keep it i think u should do it
2006-07-06 03:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man.12? that's sad.take it.dont abort.
2006-07-06 03:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by lexa (: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋