All women complain that their men are not romantic, why is that so??? was it because we dont understand man or we are not just contended always???
2006-07-05 20:12:43 · 14 answers · asked by simplegal170905 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, most women like mushy stuff, like squealing 'how cuteeeeeeeeeeeee' over babies and puppies, N SINK (sic), flowers and teddy bears. Us guys, however, like to take our HEMI Ram 4X4s off road, chug beer and hold belching contests afterwards, fish for trout and talk HEMI/i-Force/Mustangs/VTEC while rocking out to Tool or rap, while any man caught with any of the aforementioned stuff that women do are usually effeminate or homosexual.
With this in mind, it's not that easy for us to consider the value of dinner by candelight, except of course, sticking our undercooked sausage link over it (kidding; it does make a nice atmosphere). So for us to be romantic, it's 1. Again, hard for us to be romantic when us machos offroad to Tool with a 12-gauge in our hands to do some huntin' 2. If we do it too much, it takes away the meaning of such actions and 3. Some women actually freak out if we DO do it too much, like label us as "clingy.
2006-07-05 20:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by edwardw818 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most women do not understand men. They truly confuse us as much as we confuse them. Romanticism is dying out as well. There are so many guys on this site asking for a skinny tall blonde with DD sized breasts. And as soon as guys can objectify women, they no longer feel the need to treat them with respect; how we deserved to be treated. But it could also be that guys really dont' know how to be romantic.
2006-07-06 03:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of men don't care if you're romantic with them or not, not because they're jerks, but just becasue men and women are different. Guys have to try hard to be romantic most of the time so ask to be romanced one in a while if you really want it
also, guys can be romantic and we don't notice because it's not what we would do
so if a guy is givin you soem foreplay or trying somthign new, that is romance to him because he wants you to enjoy it. romance doesnt have to be flowers and fancy meals. the fact that a guy is doing somthing to you with his fingers or tounge is romantic cuz it's not enjoyable for him that way, its all for you
2006-07-06 03:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by splindiferiss_monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lost art, gal.
But you know why? It's cuz we don't HAVE to be romantic. If a girl thinks we are funny or cute she will be all over us.
It's gotten too easy for the guys. You gals need to hold us to a higher standard by not giving in so readily. Make us DESERVE your company. You deserve better.
2006-07-06 03:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by OldFogey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really in mens genes to be naturally romantic, unless of course they are gay. It doesn't mean a man doesn't love you because he's not romantic.
2006-07-06 03:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are more romantic than women....
just see ur self...
when your boyfriend keep on trying diffrent things to make you smile..... a girl abruptly stops him by saying...." i dont like that... iam late... its so hot...."
if you have any idea just say it or just take the idea what he is presenting...
so try to adjust and u'll find a great romantic partner...
2006-07-06 03:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by thatniceboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men aren't romantic because they don't know how to be. Then other don't want to show their soft side.
2006-07-06 03:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by lilladysip02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK men DO get Romantic when they are tring to get us interested. THEN they get the woman down the to the altar to get married its over. NO MORE ROMANCE, in most cases.
2006-07-06 03:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Primarily because gal expecting too much and are not attached to ground realities.
Secondly, males are hird wired for more than romance.
2006-07-06 03:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you use a word like 'most' it is a stereotype...romance can be found anywhere - try looking in the right place.
2006-07-06 03:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by bndjunction4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋