This is what i feel because the people we love we tolerate everything so that we don't end up loosing them.Is compromise a right thing to do in love ? Is compromise Essential is love?
2006-07-05 20:05:59 · 17 answers · asked by PrincEss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is a funny thing, we always hurt the ones that we love,yet it is not much different to any other relationship we have,just more intense.
As for the compromise through the thought or concept of lose, just like suffering for fashion, we do what other people say that makes us feel good.
If i said that i loved you for the opportunity to answer Ur question would you then think less of me?
The same cannot be said for the reverse as there would be absolution and no compromise of feeling!
2006-07-05 22:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think love includes a lot of compromising, but I think that the breaking point for people is different. Some people put up with a lot in the name of love...others not enough. Compromise should be a two-way street where both parties come out happy, but most of the time it does not work out that way. One person does one thing, and the other gets back at that person by doing another thing the other person does not care for. I don't think that that is very healthy...than it becomes an ugly competition and a vicious cycle. So, yeah...love is a compromise in many ways, but it should be a situation of understanding more than compromise. Love that consists wholly on multiple compromises can't be good...love should be a feeling where the couple feels things mutually.
2006-07-05 20:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turning down the TV at night is compromise, love cannot be compromised. Love if it's real, is unconditional. I do believe that in order to make a relationship work, you have to compromise. It can't always be about you...it has to be about you both, as a team.
2006-07-05 20:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by KamKam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s true that love is compromising. But we can`t closingour eyes, and compromising everything He do. Can`t do that....Because, if He really love You, He will compromise to YOu too.
So both of You are compromising...that`s the fair love. You dont have to worry loosing Him if he just demanding to be understood meanwhile He didn`t do the same to you. Love is contain take and give.
If He so egoism, then bye-bye better looking for another better one, it`s hurt yes, but temporary than you just following your emotion without seing the truth, you are the one who will be suffering.
2006-07-05 20:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. Compromise is a natural part of any relationship...theres a country song that goes...i start walkin your way you start walkin mine, we meet in the middle neath that old georgia pine, we gained a lot of ground but we both learned a little when we meet in the middle. thats compromise in a nutshell . But there are some things you should never compromise, like your feelings and self esteem. Or beliefs that have built your personality....thats not compromise, thats some one who wont accept you for you and will end up being controlling
2006-07-05 20:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. Compromise is essential in every day living. In order for any relationship to work, be it a friendship, family, or a significant other, there is an equal amount of give-and-take that we must do in order to keep the relationship going.
2006-07-05 20:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No couple is going to agree on 100% of things 100% of the time. Compromise is essential to love because of this. Just like raising children, you have to choose your battles. Successful couples know when to make an issue out of something and when to just let things roll off their backs.
2006-07-05 20:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Eebles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise is one of the most important things in a relationship, but you shouldn't tolerate everything. You have to draw the line somewhere or your partner will just walk all over you if you let them.
2006-07-05 20:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by seraphikah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe what your saying is that the people we love we accept certain things as being part of who they are. I do not think acceptance of personal attributes is compromise but acceptance is as important as compromise as we tend to set a high expectation of our mates, bf, gf, wives etc. Yes it is important
2006-07-05 20:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise doesn't make anyone happy. Its about learning to accept the things that your loved one does. Not allowing them to walk all over you.
2006-07-05 20:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋