there's this guy that i'm friends with and he's HOT and we just talk alot. he know i have b/f probs and always asks when i'm gonna leave him, i never answer or even tell him about my probs. he's so intense, he'll call me and talk for hrs, txt me heaps, then i won't hear from him for the nxt 6 months. i think about him heaps but not sure if he likes me back, he always tells me about how many women he has been with etc....but i just feel something with him
2006-07-05 19:35:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
b4 u do anything, ask a friend to check him out first... it wud b better if u ask his friend wat he is like... maybe he is telling u about he old love-life just to get u jealous... u may never noe tht during the 6 months tht he didnt talk to u, he mite have been trying out the 'play-hard-to-get' method...
2006-07-05 19:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Vitamin_xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be cautious of this "caring" casanova.
Any man who boasts to a woman his other romantic/intimate conquests and has the pattern of calls/contact as you describe can expect the same type of contact AFTER you give it up to him.
If you want to be a "sex buddy" to this guy and won't be hurt when he goes off to find other prey, then what's the harm. However---if you know you'll be hurt when he DOES move on, it's best to spare / protect your feelings and KEEP IT FROM HIM.
How fast do you think he'll reach warp speed from you when you tell him he's the daddy????
2006-07-06 02:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!! Only true happiness is found through Jesus. He will bring someone to you when you are right with Him. When we choose people for ourselves, it will always fail. Just be patient, stay in the Word, and let God lead you where you need to go. Stay pure because when you do meet someone you will have no regrets of past relationships that involved sex, etc. It will be worth the wait. I have seen it happen when people stop loooking and let the Lord do the work.
2006-07-06 02:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by BONNIE GLASS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has been giving you hints. He probably talks about his conquests to see if you get jealous. He probably has no idea you have feelings for him. I think should take a leap and tell him how you feel. I am sure he has feelings for you. Why else is his willing to invest his time?
2006-07-06 03:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by questionMD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, cheat on your boyfriend. Just know that you will never be wife material. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Can't turn a ho into a housewife.
2006-07-06 03:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead gal ask him what he thinks.Before u know it u may have a gd deal to put yo relationship probs behind u.
2006-07-06 02:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go along and find it out for yourself. what do you have to lose but your virtue and bodily pleasure to him...if you're willing to. and you gain the knowledge. prepare for the emotional part and thats hard to handle.
2006-07-06 03:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a player he is only intersted in one thing and he will add you to his list in his book and tell his friends that you are . a easy mark this is fact in men . my opion?
2006-07-06 02:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temptation is evil....Do what ur heart tells u..to but carefull stay a vigin....Life is precious and is not game..ok love....
2006-07-06 02:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Artist * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to tell him he cant read you mind
2006-07-06 02:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋