ok me and my husband r ok now we r going trough conseling and he has TOTALLY changed so we went on a vaction no kids or anything and i want 2 go out and do fun stuff but all he wants 2 do is stay in a have sex and just yesterday he stayed out all night what should i do what if he cheating AGAIN i know i sound sooooooo stupid but i don't know what 2 do.
2006-07-05 19:20:44 · 17 answers · asked by linsey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your fears are totally resonable. the two of you are working towards a better life and if he wants to stay inside tell him that you want to have fun and express your feelings to him the same way you have expressed them to us. don't nag him though because then with out a shadow of a doubt he will cheat again. let him know that the two of you are not exactly on good terms but you trust him. if he does anything that might incriminate him then the marriage will end quick.
2006-07-05 19:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Gangsta Geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to think about you and your kids. You can't let them see him cheating on you this will make them very unstable. I also don't think that you should take it from him. The conseling doesn't help EVERYONE. Maybe he isn't fixable. You should just sit down and have a talk with him say listen if your cheating i'm gone and if not then maybe you two should start over. Go out on a first date and try to rekindle the love.
2006-07-05 19:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him up. placed a fictious photo, call and so on. and enable him come and discover you. Do you've a girlfriends homestead you may bypass to even if that is a saturday morning. If he continues to be doing this, he will leap on that pc once you walk out the door. possibly have your lady friend pull up the web site once you go away so he can contact you, she will commence the communique. quite, in case you do not opt to waste some time on the above, you would extra acceptable kick him out. Take the modem with you once you artwork nights. which will tick him off, yet whats up no more beneficial than hurting you from searching at porno and sex on the web. i'd make him go away, although the in ordinary words reason I reported to set him up changed into carry onto some assistance, possibly print it, reproduction and paste it for data. Threaten him divorce for adulty with it. for this reason i discussed placing him as a lot as go away and get him to pay you vast time. reliable success, he's not properly worth it.
2016-11-01 07:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you not enjoy having sex with him? was that not the real reason you left the kids wherever? there is enough time for all the other stuff you can do when you have the kids, use this time to spend with each other, he probally just went out and tried to gather his thoughts on why you wont spend time with him doing what he thought you two enjoyed! are you fickle or some thing
2006-07-05 21:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by roughgar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A husband, given time away from kids, will wan't sex as often as possible.
Kids have cut into men's love lives since dirt.
A vacation to a man means sex, sex and more sex, and when they don't get it they are apt to get drunk and complain to a bartender.
I wouldn't see zeebras, it more likely horses.
Talk to the man. Look in his eyes. You will know.
2006-07-05 19:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dude L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him and tell him if this marriage is going to work you need to stay home then talk to counsler and see what she says and you should put out a little more be advetures you are a desirable woman and dont forget it if he refuses you then some one better will whant you and treat you better
2006-07-05 19:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by sailor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will know if he is cheating is by asking HIM. What you do about it is entirely up to you. You're the one who got back with him.
2006-07-05 19:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone new he will never be the person you want no matter what because there is no changing someone and you should not have to anyway you should just find someone that you can have a good time with and can relate to you
2006-07-05 19:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did and he's lieing about it dump him. if u think he's honestand his story pans out then work on it. if he says he made a mistake give him 1 chance to prove it and boot him if he don't be fair. or discuss an open relationship.
2006-07-05 19:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him and your instinct.
In case you apprehend some cheating, confront in the beginning.
2006-07-05 19:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋